Hi everyone,
I have been struggling with pain on the right hand side of my abdomen for over one year. I had my gallbladder removed in 2021 and then my appendix out in 2022. Three weeks after the appendectomy, a new sharp pain began; initially it was thought to be related to my surgery.
Since then, I have had CT, US and MRI scans and the only thing that has been seen is three tumours on my liver - they were not there on previous liver scans done when diagnosing the appendix and gallbladder problem.
The main area of the pain is my upper right quadrant - where my liver is. I have seen consultants who keep saying that the tumours are not causing the pain but not telling me how they can be so sure.
I am waiting for MRI results and to have a TBIDA scan to check the function of liver and biliary tree. As I wanted to have more time to speak to someone and ask them for more information on the tumours, I made a private appointment with a consultant I had not seen before.
It was a disaster. In a nutshell, he decided in a very short space of time and with not much medical details, that the pain I am having is due to my state of mind and that he felt any further investigation was pointless. He even went so far to say that I most likely did not need my previous surgeries and the pain I had with those was in my mind!
I pointed out that my gallbladder had too many stones to count and kept causing a blockage and that the appendix had burst along with wrapping itself around my small intestine - this detail I got from the consultants at the time.
I gave up when I said "putting the pain to one side" and asked about the nature of the tumours, he just replied - "they are not causing the pain". He obviously was not listening to a word I said.
I am not clinically depressed, I do get a bit low at times, which I am sure is to be expected with being in this level of pain 24/7 for over a year. It has caused me to lose my job due to ill health.
I do sometimes think about if I am doing enough - but I am being proactive with trying to get to the route of problem, but also have days where I switch off to chasing things up and distract myself as much as possible with crafting or reading.
I had tried to return to work last year on reduced hours, but I couldn't manage it due to the pain.
I take multiple medications which include morphine and gabapentin. I am someone who is reluctant to take paracetamol usually.
I am here to know I am not alone in this, that others actually know how it feels to be in such a situation.
Thank you for reading,
Emma