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Need "Huge Prayers" for Health Unlocked member and my best friend

I don't know what else to do right now, except to ask for HUGE PRAYERS for my best friend and also a Health Unlocked member.

I just received a text about ten minutes ago that she is not doing well and hospice is on there way.

Im shocked, I cant stop crying and my heart is broken into tiny pieces because this women is my best friend , shes been the best thing to come into my life...and I cant lose her in my life.

We met here on Health Unlocked, and we hit it off from day one.She is as nuts and loonie as me, lol We talk almost daily (all through the day), unless one of us is off to a doctor or we r in too much pain to talk. We have never met in person because of our medical conditions,but we talk on the phone and text daily. We have even become family, as she talks to my loved ones and I talk with hers. Shes the only person Ive ever known in my life that has severe med issues like me, fights daily like me, and still can cuss ya out better than anyone I know.She even teaches me new cuss words and etc and cracks me up every time.We r two peas in a pod, who are medical messes and still laugh daily together at ourselves and everything around us.

I feel helpless and wish I could hop on a plane to be by her side but because of our rules in the U.S. I cant leave my state because my medicine cant be taken over state lines.This is the worst feeling to not be able to be by your best friends side when I want to soooo badly.

I just want to give her comfort as she does for me every day. I want to be there for her family as they r family to me also.

This women is the toughest women I have EVER known.. and has battled ALOT of med issues and etc.IF anyone can pull through ...she can.

Im just screaming inside saying to myself....Listen "….. " you have to fight..you have been through so much.. and ur time is "NOT" now...I still need u to cuss at me daily, call me silly names, me cuss at u and call u silly names....I need my sidekick... your the only one Ive ever been able tell things and u understand. You understand my health and have been there for me where my own family hasn't n doesn't. Your so tough.. way tougher than me...... u cant give up....Im here fighting for u... I just wish u could hear me!!!

Im not a religious person...but I don't know what else to do for my best friend.Her family says they will call me when they can, as they are tending to her. I feel helpless!

PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE send prayers for my friend... I need SOMEONE to hear them and help her fight her way through this... it is not her time and I will not accept any of this because she is too tough and a fighter and I will not accept her not being by my side and being my crazy sidekick in my life.

I love you "...….." !!! now freakin fight damn it... u have it in u... fight like heck... Im here for ya!!!! I need to hear u call me on the phone and cuss me out, lol I love u my friend and Im sending u the biggest hugs I have .. along with my heart!!!

Community members....I just need prayers for her....so many... she can hear and feel them!!

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Hi, the 2 of you are in my thoughts about preyers, try to stay strong for you and your friend xx😢

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Thank you so much... Im just sitting here staring at the computer with the hope my friend is gonna hop on HU and reply to me. :(

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Hello again ☺️, I've been in that situation, I know it's a cliché but making yourself busy helps rather than waiting for that call or msg, xx

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Your right 100 percent, but I feel like Im glued to my seat and cant physically or mentally do anything. Im just sitting and looking at a boyds bear angel she sent me month ago.She told me it would protect me, and all I wanna do is protect her right now :(

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Forget wh I jus said, you do you, I know no matter how many kind words you get your main focus is your friend so do what ever makes you more comfortable in this worrying time xx nuf hugs

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means a lot OkeyCokey :)

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No problem, keep your chin up 🙂xx

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I am so sorry to hear..hopefully your friend will be ok. I will say a little prayer.

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thank u for ur prayer :)

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O hippo love, sending you a huge hug. I will say a prayer for both of you.

As another member said being busy may help. But yeah your tummy will do somersaults every time your phone brings.

Remember we are all here for you.

Xx

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You guys are all my only friends and it means a lot. More than u all know. Im gonna listen n try to eat something, but Im still gonna wait here .. for my friend.

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I’m so sorry to hear about your friend. I am ok with praying and I want you to know that I have. Until you hear something, please continue to take care of yourself. I’m guessing that your friend would want you to. And I’m guessing that your friend might cuss at you if you didn’t 😀. We’re here for you.

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u actually got me to laugh, because I can actually hear her cussing at me right now, lol

Thank u for ur prayer :)

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So sorry to hear this and I hope she is ok. I can't help being curious as to who this is but it is none of my business of course. All I can say to you is $^$£&^&^%^&* - will that do for cussing for a start? x

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thanks for the smile...the cussing helps, lol

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Good! x

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Did you know German has more swear words than any other language? x

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Im crying and smiling at same time hypercat54. :) :(

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so sorry to hear that prayers for you friend sure she knows she is in your thoughts.

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thank you kenster1 means a lot. I even just sent her a chat message.. even though I know she cant read it right now...I just am lost like Ive NEVER been before !?

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As someone who met my fiance on H/U, I can sympathize with you directly. My Sue stood up for me and helped me fight my way through some of the worst physical and mental spells in my life....The only difference is that we could leave our states and she came from Tampa Bay to Cincinnati Ohio to get me and take me home. Now we fight our medical and physical problems together. So I know what it means to care that much about someone on H/U. I still have several other very, very close friends here too. I pray for them all the time and I will pray for you and your friend until you guys get this problem resolved. I'd cuss you out too but, my sweetie is a gentle, loving lady who doesn't approve of that. But, I'm cussing you out in spirit....Okay? Take good care of yourself because when your friend gets better she's gonna want a strong you ready to go so you can cuss each other out constantly! Jumbo jets full of love and hugs from Sue and I! I have faith both you and your friend can make it!

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Hello, what is your friend's name? 🌻 Hugs, Bev

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Prayers for you both xx

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Hi, I'm sending you hope, love and hugs and will certainly pray for you both. Stay strong sweetheart. xx😺

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You’ve got it I’ll start a novena right now for her love Pip xx

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Praying for you both that you’ll both find the strength to get through this. I’m in England so prayers are now going up here too. I try not to swear so will send love instead. XXXXXXXX

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Prayers of God's love and comfort to embrace you and your friend. Prayers of healing and recovery for your friend. I am hoping she will pull through. You are in my thoughts and prayers.

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Sending BIG hugs and prayers to both of you (((((((((((())))))))) xx

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Thank u :)

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Hi hippolove1 - I was just thinking about you yesterday & wonderibg how you were. (You may not remember me, but we've shared a few comments/ideas etc.)

I can feel your angst through your post. I'm sending many positive vibes, prayers - & full on BEGGING to the Mighest Power for your dear friend. May be corny but opening your heart to the Angels can't hurt - I'm doing it for you both right now ❤.

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Thank u much old friend.I do believe in angels :)

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Hi. My best friend passed away a couple of years ago, in a hospice. She was not old and was the Kindest, most beautiful person. We were travelling in a motor home (RV) when I found out that she'd gone and I was totally destroyed.

The care she got in the hospice was amazing.

All my thoughts and prayers are with you, her and families. Xxx

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:)

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Hi I'm so sorry to hear this and just wanted to say I've said a prayer for you both, sending love, strength and big hugs xxx

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Thank u so much :)

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Oh hippo your the most wonderful friend a woman could have. I don't know what I would do with out you. We would be lost. I'm here. And your there. I hope we can figure out how. I want to meet you so much. Love ya

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U know I feel the same way.I did this for u.Love u bunches.

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Love you to the moon and beyond.

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