Jim had cancer in both his kidneys, his lung, ardnel glands and then developed bone cancer in his leg, shoulder. He had an operation to put a pin in his leg about 4 weeks ago. He came home to die. In the last week he had hiccups every time he breathed in. He developed a severe sore throat and inflammation and could no long swollow or take medication. He could not talk either. He was put on a syringe driver yesterday and this morning passed away peacefully! He was not alone. His son was with him the moment he passed. Thank you for listening.
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It's with sad news about Jim.
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I am so sorry and saddened to hear this news and my heart goes out to you and his family at this time. It sound like Jim fought a very hard battle and you were there for him and did your best. So take comfort in this. Take care in the days ahead and be kind to yourself and rest. Sending you my sincere wishes at this time and if I may a gentle breeze of a hug. Bless you and bless Jim xxx
Oh dear Carol, I'm so sorry to hear that, but I'm glad to hear that his son was with him when he passed. The one consolation is that he is now at peace and no longer suffering. Sincere condolences to you and his family. Thinking of you. xx
Sending you my thoughts.
So sorry. Best wishes
Thank you for updating us. I am glad he is out of pain but very sad for you and his family. Be kind to yourself.
So sorry for your loss. Xx
You are very much in my thoughts. I am so sorry and saddened to hear that Jim has passed away this morning. I am so pleased his son was with him and it was peaceful for Jim. We are here for you and please do keep in touch and keep talking to us if you wish to, Much love to you x
Sorry for your loss. Hope you are getting the support you need 🤗
All my best wishes at such a difficult time x
Oh Carol, I’m so sorry to hear that. He suffered so much towards the end didn’t he. You were so kind and caring and good to him too. We’ll all be thinking of you at this horrible time, look after yourself x
m relieved that he passed peacefully at the end.
It’s so sad what you’ve both been through.you need to look after yourself now xxx
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I’m so sorry to read of the passing of Jim, and are thinking of you and his family. At least Jim won’t be in any more pain. I’ll be thinking of you all.
Very sorry for your loss. Take care of yourself.
Sending you my thoughts and love
Sending sincere condolences 🌹
I am sorry Carol thinking of you at this time xx
So sorry Carol to hear of Jim's passing and sending my sincere condolences. x
So very sorry for your loss xx
So sorry to hear this Carol. Jim's suffering is over now. it's very hard for those close to see their loved ones suffer. Look after yourself in the days and months to come. My condolences to you and Jim's son and family
I'm so sorry for your loss Carol. Hope you have got support at this sad time. Take care love xx
I’m sorry to hear of Jim’s passing. My heart goes out to you and his family at this time. Xx
So sorry for your loss 💐
Sorry for your loss. R.I.P Jim.
So very sorry for your loss. He is no longer suffering . Take care x
I'm so sorry to hear of Jim's passing, please take time to look after yourself in the difficult days to come x
Our deepest sympathy to you and your family..xxx
my heart goes out to you x
Thinking of you and Jim's family at this sad time for you all. Try to remember the better times and be kind to yourself. You all did the very best to help him fight his battle and for that you will find some comfort in the future. Gentle hugs xxx
I am so sorry to read of Jim’s passing . He fought a long hard battle. I’m thinking of you, take care of yourself.
sending you strength to endure this difficult time x
Sincere Condolences to Jim's family. God bless, rest in peace 🙏
I am so sorry to hear of Jim's passing. He had a very rough time but is now at peace. I hope you can take comfort from that. Sending love and hugs. xx
I am very sorry to hear of this sad news and your and his family’s loss
So sorry to hear about the loss of Jim, Carol. Cancer is so cruel. Sending you the biggest of hugs and condolences to all of Jim’s family also.
My sincere condolences to you. Jim and yourself have had such a tough time.
My wife Heather passed away at home from lung cancer 18 months ago. I have some understanding of how you will be feeling at this time.
I hope you will be able celebrate Jim's life in a meaningful way and start on the journey to find a new life without him. I know it won't always be easy, I still have my moments, don't be afraid of your emotions.
Love and thoughts to you and your family
I'm so sorry to hear about your loss. My thoughts go out to you and your family.
Sorry for your loss. Such sad news xxx
so sorry for your loss 😢
so sad and sorry to hear about Jim’s terrible illnesses and what he went through and the tragic circumstance s
Praying for your loss and your family ,his son was with him that’s comforting to hear god bless you all at this sad time🙏
I'm so sorry to read this, sending you much love ❤️
So sorry for your loss. I’ve read your posts and you’ve been such a caring, thoughtful partner to Jim. Time to look after yourself too. Take care.
So sorry for you, Jim is at peace now.💐
Really sad news but he's left his pain behind him now and in time you will be able to remember him as he was in happier times xx
Really sad news but he's left his pain behind him now and in time you will be able to remember him as he was in happier times xx
Thank you all for your sympathy and empathy. And thank you for your lovely replies. I saw my granddaughter and son yesterday and that was nice especially jasmine calling me granny! My sister has been looking after me and feeding me. It's these bursts of tears every now and then that get me. I feel isolated, Jim's daughter and her partner are still at Jim's house, and I would normally go round to see Jim after work and chat with them. That is gone now and I would feel like an intruder going to the house now. When I go again I will have to ask if I can go round! I still have things at Jim's and our caravan is there too, so shall have to get that sold too. I feel like an outsider now Jim has gone! Jim said he wanted us all to still see each other, but I don't know if they would still want me too, and this is where my depression starts again! My paranoia has kicked back in thinking do his kids still want to see me? I know it's all in my head! I rang work to say I was not going in yesterday but couldn't get anyone so rang my friend and she passed the message on, then my manager rang me and was so nice telling me take as much time of as needed. It was a lovely call, it made me cry!
Sorry for rambling on. Thanks for your support and letting me talk. Take care everyone.
I’m so sorry to hear this. sending love & strength to you & all your family at this difficult time. X
So very sorry Carol our thoughts and prayers are with you x
So sorry to hear this Carol. You knew Jim's days were numbered, but the end still hits hard.
It's good to hear from you that he passed peacefully. He certainly knew how loved he was.
Look after yourself, and remember we are all here to support you...
Sending condolences and love.
I'm so very sorry, thinking of you 🙏❤️
So sorry for your loss Carol, Jim and all of you were brave to the end. Sending big gentle hugs and condolences to you and all the family.
I'm so very sorry to hear your very sad news, deepest condolences to you all xx
So sorry for your loss x
I am sorry to hear your sad news. Take care of yourself now! Remember it is important for you to eat and keep hydrated. Don’t forget your own meds now. You did everything you could for Jim. Now take some time for you. God bless
Oh Carol, I am so sorry to hear your very sad news that Jim has died. There is nothing I can say that will make you feel better, but having lost my own Dad to cancer, I know I was reassured to know that he was no longer in pain.
Please look after yourself.
I'm so sorry to hear this Carol, thinking of you.
so sorry for your loss xx
Carolsos, so sorry to hear of Jim's passing. He went through a lot of suffering. Bless his soul. Our thoughts are with Jim's family at this time. Take Care All. X
So very sorry Carol for your loss. Your devotion to Jim throughout his awful illness has been wonderful. So thankful that your sister is now taking good care of you..X
So sorry for your loss, my deepest condolences to you and Jim's family. X
I’m sorry to read this and Jim is now at peace.
Condolences to you all, rest in peace Jim free from pain.
so sorry to hear your sad news it’s never easy when a loved one passes but he is pain free now. Take care of yourself and sending gentle hugs to you 💔
I’m so sorry 😢 thinking of you and this very sad time ❤️
I'm so sorry to hear of your sad news,sending you my deepest sympathy.Thinking of you and sending you a massive hug, god bless take care xx
big hugs.
I'm so very sorry to hear of Jim's passing. My thoughts and condolences are with you at this sad time. 😔
My condolences. Sorry for your loss.
wishing you comfort during this dark time, take care 🤗
Hi Carolsos. terribly sorry to hear of your Jim's awful suffering and your huge loss. Thinking of you xxx
Just read this and sending you my sincere condolences. Thinking of you at this time. Remember to take care of yourself as well.
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I am so very sorry to hear of Jim’s passing. You are in my thoughts and am sending you lots of love.
Sending my condolences. May he rest in eternal peace.
so sorry for your loss huney 😢 sending hugs xx
God Bless you and all that loved him
So sorry for your loss
So terribly sorry to hear this sad news. May his family and friends find comfort for in the memories they have together in joyful times.
sending sincere condolences and love. I'm sure Jim will be very proud of you and his family who have supported him through this terrible battle. Please take time for yourselves now and try and focus on your health and wellbeing and reset.
I have just supported and lost a close family member and Im now finding things difficult after trying to carry on without taking time. I'm sure Jim would want you to celebrate him and remember all of your good times. Sending hugs x
Condolences to you and the family. Sending 🤗
So sorry Carol. Please take care of yourself Mavis x
Sending condolences on the passing of Jim.Look after yourself Carol.x
Take care. He’s at peace now. Take some time off to recover from all of this… ❤️
So sorry for your loss xxx
So very very sorry for your loss. He is at peace now no more suffering and pain . God bless x
So sorry for your lost. Take care 🙏 thinking of you Xx
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