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Hi all, off topic, my lovely brother Hughie has died today in hospital with pneumonia and he had also broke his collar bone a few weeks ago. He was going to ICU when he passed Way. But before that he had been texting to his daughter right up until falling asleep and passing away. Leeds are in lockdown so I could not go see him. We are just waiting for the funeral to be arranged. I thought he was coming home so it's a big shock! He often use to come on here! Take care x

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allanah

Oh no thats a huge shock. I hope he was comfortable in hospital when he passed. Condolances to you and yours .

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Carolsos in reply to allanah

Yes he was comfortable! X

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allanah in reply to Carolsos

That's always reassuring. Im so sad for your loss x

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springcross

Oh Carol, that's absolutely dreadful I'm so sorry to hear this. Goodness it never rains does it. My brother died suddenly and unexpectedly last year so I know what an awful shock it is. Sincere condolences to you and his family. Thinking of you all. xx

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Carolsos in reply to springcross

Thank you so much springcross x

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springcross in reply to Carolsos

Take care Carol. xx

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Lolabridge

That’s very sad and such a shock for you. My sincere condolences to you and your family. X

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Gnarli

So sorry to hear of your tragic loss. My sincere condolences to you and your family

Im so sorry for you loss. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers x

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amc282

Sending my condolences...

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Bootoo

sending my condolences and a virtual hug x

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Pippy25

I am so saddened to hear this and you are now having to grieve for another family member in such a short space of time. Sending my sincere wishes to you and your family. xx

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Caza

I’m so sorry to hear this Carolsos. Dreadful news. Look after yourself take care x

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Oshgosh

I’m so sorry for your loss.it must be an awful shock to your system.look after yourself and make sure you keep eating even if it’s only a bit.

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patsymay13

Such an awful thing to happen , sending my best wishes to you and your family x

So sorry for your loss xx

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Eiram50

What a sad, sad loss for you and your family. My thoughts are with you x

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medway-lady

I'm so sorry to read this. My sincere condolences to you. x

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Kags1068

I'm truly sorry to hear your sad news. My sincere condolences to you and your family. It must be a terrible shock x

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Downtime

So sorry to hear your sad news Carol , big hug x

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sylvi

My condolences to you and your family darling.xxxx

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ruth_p

Sorry for your loss x

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Matalow

Sorry to hear your bad news please except my condolences .

Mike

I'm so sorry for your loss. x

Sending hugs x

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Mymymy

Sorry for your loss. May peace be with you and your family!

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Brushwork

Deepest sympathy for your loss.

Go softly

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Sheila_G

I am so sorry for your loss. What a terrible shock that is for you. Prayers and condolences to you and your family. x

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helixhelix

So sorry for you loss. Do remember to look after yourself right now too.

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Happygranny1958

Thinking of you, so sorry to hear this. Take care. X

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Dobcross1

So sorry for your loss x

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Wirtgen

Deepest sympathy.

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nanapat61

So sorry for your loss x

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Ferret18

❤️

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Brychni

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beeckey

So sorry for your loss. x

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Leics

I’m so sorry to hear of such a tragic loss. My deepest sympathy goes to you and your family.

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Green230461

So sorry to hear your sad news. Take care of yourselves now. Remember to eat and drink when you can and be kind to each other.

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BassieHolland

Condolances to you and your family. That is a hard time, especially in combination with COVID.

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Barbs51

Sorry for your loss 💛

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Ruth12345

Sorry to read of your loss. My condolences to you and your family.

Try your best to look after yourself throughout this time and always.

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Dawn7

I was so sad to hear about your brother, Hughie. It is never the "right time" when someone dies. but to expect him home safe and to lose him, is heart wrenching. It was good to hear he was in contact with his daughter until he fell asleep. That is a precious memory she and you will have in time to come, which hopefully will give you some comfort. My heart goes out to you and your family. I hope you are able to support each other in these severely restricted times.

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nomoreheels

I'm so sorry Carol. It must have been a big shock, especially as you thought he was coming home. Would we have known him? Just with you saying he used to come on here.

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Carolsos in reply to nomoreheels

I don't know what name he used on here. It was him that got me on this site when I was diagnosed with RA. I thought at the. Time my old life had ended but it's just different! X

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opalfree

🤗🤗

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mille

That is so sad, especially when you thought he would be coming home. My brother passed away in June and I was only allowed in hours before he passed away, he had vascular dementia, it is a very upsetting time. xx

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Hessie5

Sorry to hear about your news, take care and condolences to you and your family x

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Gillybob19

Sorry to read of your loss, it must've been a terrible shock. Don't forget to look after yourself x

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Plumcrumble

So sorry for your loss 🙏

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achyknitter

I am so sorry for your loss.

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bunnycaramel

Sending my condolences to you at this sad time

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Alexaileen1957

So sorry for your loss. Xxx

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Pasjc

Bless you and your family

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Boxerlady

So sorry - please try to take care of yourself at such a sad time 💐

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Monkeysmum

Hi Carol, I’m so sorry to hear your family are now dealing with another bereavement in such a short time. Sending a big hug to you all. Xx

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Carolsos in reply to Monkeysmum

Thank you for your kind words. X

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Smiler53

So sorry for your loss Carolsos 🙏

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Biofreak

Very sorry for your loss Carolsos. My condolences to you and all the family xxx

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Stats12

Sorry for your loss Carol, thinking of you and your family at this sad time ❤️

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Neonkittie17

Sorry for your loss 😢

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Zip1

My thoughts are with you x

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Haz58

So sorry for your loss! Sending prayers and hugs. Xx

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CloudTreeDrive13

Simply thinking of you at this very emotionally sad time . Take care xxxx

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Julies49

So sorry for your loss (( hugs )) xx

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Carolsos

Thank you everyone for for lovely messages. X

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AKDellitt

I am so, so sorry. I also lost my brother recently. There is nothing like a brother. Bless him and your family.

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Barrister

That’s so sad. I’m sorry for your loss.

Clemmie

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10CC

Feeling for you all and wishing you and your family strength at this difficult time x

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lovemydoggy

I'm sorry for your loss. ❤️

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