All my life I have been very kind to my family helping them when they have had financial problems and always being there for them when they have had problems. And I am the one who always gets slapped in the face. My brother has 3 daughters one who told a lie about me and the other I was really good to and helped her and her family in a real big financial way they wouldn't be in there home of today if it was not for me. I treated this one like a daughter and she gave me the biggest slap of everyone because when she did I was so very ill and I was still there for her. I would go out everyday with her to get her stuff for her home and at that time I was in horrendous pain and I did not know I had 5 fractures in my spine. The day before I left her she brought me a bottle of perfume. I said my goodbyes to her and made my way to the airport and on my way home I collapsed on the plane and the same thing happened on the way back. Once I got home I received a text message from her to say that she and her family would not be coming for Christmas and that was a massive shock to be after her seeing how ill I was and she said that I had not been very nice to her and myself and husband could not believe this and due to this I got very ill and went into a massive flare and ended up in hospital. Then 2 days ago I said to my brother that if his other daughter wanted to come to my house then I would be ok about it as I thought I would rise above her lie about me. Once my brother arrived with one of her other daughters and he said she did not want to come and we ended up having a massive argument and he said I started it and for the first time in my 61 years I stood up for myself and after he had gone I must admit it felt good as I was not left with it all still inside me. He and his partner split one year ago and I fully furnished his hole house and had it fully decorated for him. This is only a little off what I have had to put up with from my family. So when will I learn to stop being so kind to people and stand up for myself more.