what would you do: updated

Hi all,

Unfortunately, my stomach cancer has been confirmed and I will have my stomach removed in the next 3 weeks, the only chance to get rid of the dreaded C.

The surgeon asked me if I smoked and how many, (less than 5 a day). He brushed it away with sweep of the hand as if it was too insignificant at this stage. He certainly did not tell me stop. Having said that, I am determined to stop a week before the major op and of course, afterwards, when I will be in hospital for 10 to 14 days. A good point to stop, one way or another.

Hope you are all doing well and keeping your resolve.

[Quit4Money 1 Year Smoke Free 9 Months Smoke Free]

Oh my dear, I’m so sorry you have this illness and surgery to face. What a hardship. We stand in solidarity with you on your decision to quit smoking. I think many cancers are hereditary and not always related to smoking. But ... it is still very good to quit. I wish you peace and strength over next few weeks and months. And hope you find the support you need on this site. xo

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Thank you for that. Every reply is appreciated as it makes one feel less alone.

[Paulbrighton]

Hi I’m really sorry to hear of your diagnosis. I was really unsure whether to have the Ivor Lewis or not, hoping that I could have definitive chemo radiation instead. But in the end I had it and the pathology report following surgery showed that it has started to spread outside of the oesophagus. Had I not had the surgery when I did, I wouldn’t be around today - one year on. My view now is that if you have the chance of a cure, grab it with both hands. Don’t delay and don’t worry too much about getting used to eating afterwards. People do as you will read in this and many forums. There are so many people at stage four who can’t have the surgery with curative intent and would give anything to be in the position to have it. Unfortunate as we are with this shitty disease at least we have options. Good luck with your decision. Paul.

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You are right, of course Paul. And I thank you. I am sure that when I have the final conversation with my team I will take my chance even at the risk of not getting through the op or the immediate aftermath. I am prepared for any event. Again, thank you.