day 18 and its...very bad day for 1 lil kid (me)

woke up (as usaul) and went to a bbq at 2pm, fine then, until my back pain kicked in so i had to go home and was in aggony (7.35pm) and i was liein on my bed in so much pain it was un-barable, felt better later ish at around 10.30pm, poped on msn and my ex was on (great...not)

she started flirtin with me etc

txt paige what was going on and she is fuming with her and as paige can get worried she txt back later, please done leave me, i want you for ever xxx <hope it worked in quote box

and i text back dont worry darlin i dont know why i'd wanna leave u as ily to much and ur all i want xxx <hope it worked again

and shes all good now, so im feelin a lil better now:D

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  • Maybe just say to the ex gf on msn "can't talk now- busy with the love of my life- Paige" and then save it and show it to Paige? That should work (from a girls perspectve):D

  • Hi Geoff :D

    Well done day 18 that's great keep going

    Sorry you had to leave the BBQ early as your back was bad

    But glad you felt better later

    Love

    Marg

  • I hate to sound harsh but...

    EX... means... EX

    Sometimes you have to be cruel to be kind, so perhaps add the ex to the ignore list for some weeks. You are going through enough while quitting smoking without adding problems into the mix.

  • How complicated the life of a teenager is nowadays Geoff. Didn't know what Love was at your age. Can't you handle two of them at once, they don't have to know, when they find out just move on to the next one. Just don't smoke while you're doing it. David

  • Hi Geoff :D

    Well done day 18 that's great keep going

    Sorry you had to leave the BBQ early as your back was bad

    But glad you felt better later

    Love

    Marg

    thanks mate, was a bit of a shame but still avoided a cig so im still happy:Deven though i was in pain

    I hate to sound harsh but...

    EX... means... EX

    Sometimes you have to be cruel to be kind, so perhaps add the ex to the ignore list for some weeks. You are going through enough while quitting smoking without adding problems into the mix.

    yeah i might just block her 4 a while, i also save picture on convos of what she says to me and paige says shes strange and worrying...i just think she jeloius im with who i want and i moved on and that i wont leave paige

  • I don't think thats sound advice :). Sure it might be fun, but both of these girls have feelings, and from what i've read, paige is every bit a lovely girl, hang on to the good ones, they don't come around that often in life.

  • I don't think thats sound advice :). Sure it might be fun, but both of these girls have feelings, and from what i've read, paige is every bit a lovely girl, hang on to the good ones, they don't come around that often in life.

    Are you a Parson Jase, what the hell does a 16 year old boy want with good girls, good girls are ok to take home to meet the parents, or, at a push, to think of marrying. Bad girls are what a red blooded teenager wants so stop being boring. David

  • Perhaps, but paige has been supporting him through this quit, and he'd be much better off succeeding on the quit than succeeding in stringing 2 lasses along right now. After all, thats why he's on these forums.. and not the 'dear dierdre' forum :)

  • After all, thats why he's on these forums.. and not the 'dear dierdre' forum :)

    Perhaps you've answered him with that statement.

  • Are you a Parson Jase, what the hell does a 16 year old boy want with good girls, good girls are ok to take home to meet the parents, or, at a push, to think of marrying. Bad girls are what a red blooded teenager wants so stop being boring. David

    Lol, sorry, but have to agree with David here. In fact, I have deliberately not commented on what I would have done in that situation at 16, smoking or not. Thank god we didnt have the net and mobiles then, lol.

    However a bit of advice for the lad, whenever you talk to another girl/woman, don't bother even mentioning it to your GF, whether it was an innocent conversation or not. Its just not worth the hassle.

  • However a bit of advice for the lad, whenever you talk to another girl/woman, don't bother even mentioning it to your GF, whether it was an innocent conversation or not. Its just not worth the hassle.

    thanks for that

    will bare it in mind:D

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