nsd_user663_4964

Maybe just say to the ex gf on msn "can't talk now- busy with the love of my life- Paige" and then save it and show it to Paige? That should work (from a girls perspectve)

nsd_user663_3728

Hi Geoff

Well done day 18 that's great keep going

Sorry you had to leave the BBQ early as your back was bad

But glad you felt better later

Love

Marg

nsd_user663_4990

I hate to sound harsh but...

EX... means... EX

Sometimes you have to be cruel to be kind, so perhaps add the ex to the ignore list for some weeks. You are going through enough while quitting smoking without adding problems into the mix.

nsd_user663_4149

How complicated the life of a teenager is nowadays Geoff. Didn't know what Love was at your age. Can't you handle two of them at once, they don't have to know, when they find out just move on to the next one. Just don't smoke while you're doing it. David

nsd_user663_5048

Hi Geoff

Well done day 18 that's great keep going

Sorry you had to leave the BBQ early as your back was bad

But glad you felt better later

Love

Marg

thanks mate, was a bit of a shame but still avoided a cig so im still happy:Deven though i was in pain

I hate to sound harsh but...

EX... means... EX

Sometimes you have to be cruel to be kind, so perhaps add the ex to the ignore list for some weeks. You are going through enough while quitting smoking without adding problems into the mix.

yeah i might just block her 4 a while, i also save picture on convos of what she says to me and paige says shes strange and worrying...i just think she jeloius im with who i want and i moved on and that i wont leave paige

nsd_user663_4990

I don't think thats sound advice :). Sure it might be fun, but both of these girls have feelings, and from what i've read, paige is every bit a lovely girl, hang on to the good ones, they don't come around that often in life.

nsd_user663_4149

I don't think thats sound advice :). Sure it might be fun, but both of these girls have feelings, and from what i've read, paige is every bit a lovely girl, hang on to the good ones, they don't come around that often in life.

Are you a Parson Jase, what the hell does a 16 year old boy want with good girls, good girls are ok to take home to meet the parents, or, at a push, to think of marrying. Bad girls are what a red blooded teenager wants so stop being boring. David

nsd_user663_4990

Perhaps, but paige has been supporting him through this quit, and he'd be much better off succeeding on the quit than succeeding in stringing 2 lasses along right now. After all, thats why he's on these forums.. and not the 'dear dierdre' forum

nsd_user663_4149

After all, thats why he's on these forums.. and not the 'dear dierdre' forum

Perhaps you've answered him with that statement.

nsd_user663_5031

Are you a Parson Jase, what the hell does a 16 year old boy want with good girls, good girls are ok to take home to meet the parents, or, at a push, to think of marrying. Bad girls are what a red blooded teenager wants so stop being boring. David

Lol, sorry, but have to agree with David here. In fact, I have deliberately not commented on what I would have done in that situation at 16, smoking or not. Thank god we didnt have the net and mobiles then, lol.

However a bit of advice for the lad, whenever you talk to another girl/woman, don't bother even mentioning it to your GF, whether it was an innocent conversation or not. Its just not worth the hassle.

nsd_user663_5048

However a bit of advice for the lad, whenever you talk to another girl/woman, don't bother even mentioning it to your GF, whether it was an innocent conversation or not. Its just not worth the hassle.

thanks for that

will bare it in mind