Wow! What a nightmare and we are still super nice to each other and very agreeable about everything. My heart is just simply broken. We were just cruising along and one day I get the words “I want a divorce”. I swear I am still in shock. The mediation was okay. I had a MAJOR meltdown in the middle of it. I am totally lost, feeling ungrounded. And of course it is a comfortable 100 degrees here. 😆 LOL
I know I will turn this corner and be okay. I sure appreciate having all of you to share this with. Love, Kelly xx
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Ahh, Amore55, i so very sorry that has happened ti U. I cry/shed tears w/U too.😥 but yeah u will get over this weirdi hump, cuz y R a strong woman. Many Prayers for U & Much Blessings sent your way.💜💙💛💗💖💕💘🙏🙏🙏😻💞💓---Love Ya! Jazmine
Kelly, when you think of the physical pain that ms gives you, you are obviously a very strong woman, so you can handle this divorce. Stay strong, big hug, love Jimeka 🤗🤗
Lots of care and love to u Kelly and yes u are going through a horrible time at the mo but u will get through it because u are a strong woman already and I'm thinking of u xxxx 💕💕💕💕💕💕
Stay strong Amore55 ! You Got This! I know this isn't your choice, hun. It was his, so YOU LIFT YOUR HEAD UP HIGH! And stiffen up that back bone of yours! And remember what I told you!
YOU CAN DO THIS!
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J🌠🦈
Call anytime you need me.💕
I went through something very similar as my MS got a lot worse and I had to stop working. We divorced amicably and have remained close friends. The hurt and pain go away ... eventually.
I’m so sorry. I remember when the same thing happened to me many years ago.
The shock, hurt, betrayal and fear can feel overwhelming at times. I think the meltdowns are normal, and actually therapeutic at times. The healing from this blow will take time. Remember to take good care of yourself. Eat well and do your stretching and other exercises. Take naps if you can. The emotions can be very exhausting. I’m wishing you all the best. Linda💕🙏. TAKE CARE OF YOU!
Amore55 . Kelly my heart and prayers are with you. Just remember we’re always here for you. I know you are a spiritual woman so just take rhe hand of the one who can make everything right.
Take care of yourself. I’m sorry you have to go through this. There will be a light at the end of the tunnel even if you can’t see it now. Hopefully, you can minimize the impact this stressor has on your health. I didn’t sleep for about 10 months after my ex-husband left our home. As my favorite singer says, “the heart of life is good”. Stay strong!
I'm so sorry to hear your bad news. I hate that we have only a "like" button on these posts. I'd like to click on the one with the tear. Deep breaths and focus on yourself. Take care...
Kelly...sending you calming & peaceful energy. Right now, you're the most important part of the equation...take EXTRA care to stay hydrated (meltdowns will happen!) & rested. Naps are great...but don't let sleeping become an escape. Healing will take time... but know this, "a heart is so much stronger when it mends❤️"
I'm sorry you have to go through this Kelly, I know this was his choice. You will get through this and be even stronger for it. Breakdowns are okay and are part of the process. You got this and can do it. It may take a while to get through it but you can do it. Vent here anytime you need, we are here for you.
Kelly my friend, You are the strongest person I know. You already go through so much physical pain and now you are being put through mental and emotional pain as well. We are praying for you. Call me when you want to talk or if you want to go for a coffee or something else. Many men are not strong enough to watch their wives/significant other go through so much pain. I know you can handle this. You are like Zena, the warrior princess. You are strong and can handle anything thrown your way. It won't be easy, but you got this. If you want some big dog love I can bring Willow over (She weighs 80 lbs) or if you want a super tiny dog I can bring Lil Mamma over (She weighs 2 1/4 lbs).
Love you and praying for you to have peace and comfort.
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