Difficult time - sister in law about to drop any day.
Her sister is on standby to childmind the other niece. After that the mother in law, and apparently after that, our other sister in law is on standby. Nobody asked me to help despite the fact I probably have the most free time. I get on with my niece really well but am obviously deemed less competent as I couldn't possibly know what to do having not had kids myself!!!
To add insult, if they die they have nominated her sister and our other sister in law to take guardianship as they all have kids. As if me and my husband wouldn't be up to the same standard despite the fact we would be able to give them the highest priority of care.
I know I sound like a right bitch (and I would never ever say this to anyone outside this forum) but it really is hurting me no end. They wouldn't understand a bit, but wouldn't it have been a nice way to show faith in us and recognition that this infertility doesnt make us incompetent.
Just another day Not 'in the parent club'.