Hello I have just completed my first IVF cycle and it unfortunately failed. The day before I was to take my test I started bleeding and having cramps. We have tried for 9 years and we have to use donor sperm as my husband have cancer treatment that damaged his sperm. We are devastated as we just feel its all hopeless. I was wondering if there are any lovely people with any advice for us as we feel this is maybe the time to just give up.