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Mom and Grandma doesn't understand others are humans too.

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Sister's birthday is thursday. So i finally called my granma and this bitch said she's coming Tommorrow. Sis birthday is the day after Tommorrow. SHE SPOKE IT WITH MOM. Even though i asked her to call me first. Dad won't want to come If Grandma's here. Mom and Grandma are damn selfish b*****. My sister has a birthday, not them. And Grandma was "ew i'm tired, ew i have work, ew i have doctors". Then don't Come. And she made it to be comfortable for her not for us, because If we even dare to speak up, they won't understand, they're gonna give us to dad. Apparently for mom her mom is more important than her kids. They think only they are tired because they have to work with people and they hate people. We have to make compromises for them but If we even dare to speak, we're out. They're psychopaths - they can't realise others have feelings too. And If we say it, we're out. Sis said she's just gonna accept whatever and just go apathetic. I Wonder If i should just accept it too. If i speak these old bitches are only getting grumpier and aren't gonna understand. It's not my fault they're old and they hate everything and everyone. They passing trauma. Dear mom and Grandma, i hate uuuuuu. You messed my mental health and are gonna do same with sis. She's the only good person in this goddamn family. She deserves more and even straingers on the Internet understand it but no my own family. I'm sorry for my language. Dear moderators please don't take it down. Please. And mom doesn't care she's passing trauma and i can't function. Just as she can't function

No, don't tell me they're in pain, they already described it in detail

I hope dad comes

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Will 🙏 for peace in your heart.

One thing I am seventy one and never had a birthday party, In a way my family were not very nice so in may ways I am pleased they did not bother to set one up. I personally unable to say anything against what is happening with your family, it seems a little self centred, In so many ways.

I do not know how old you are, or what is the age of your Sibling. When we are adults life and health can be problematic where bits fall of and a Doctor can arrange to stick problems re-affixed. Life becomes more complex.

Your Nan is coming to visit the day before so she can protect Her Health so it may be She is trying her best to at least see her Grandchildren, be thankful and accept She is calling to see, your Mother and both Siblings.

My Grandparents very rare visited our home, and when I was 3iguteen would visit weekly to make sure they were ok even when they spent time in respite I would also visit until their deaths.

Consider what you can do to make things better, life is a real unhappy place sometime and it can be up to us to make things better when life is complex especially with the aged.

BOB

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