anyone up for a Chat

Hey everyone,

I hope you are all well and Keeping safe,

I am ok just feeling a bit upset at the moment as I lost a friendship on Monday night I got told they didn't want to be my friend anymore so I am just feeling a bit sad at the moment So would be upto having a chat with someone.

Need a friend to be kind to me and talk to me help me that's why I am on here to get support with my anxiety. Anyone else who needs support let me know 🙂

Xx

[Silverlady5]

Hi there so sorry you’re feeling so sad it’s always difficult when a friendship ends and it’s hard to know what to say to you to make you feel better. Maybe in a few days time things will look better and you can talk to your friend and find a way to re connect with him/her. Sometimes friendships do end though and you have to move on and we meet new people who are more in tune with who you are. I myself have had friends come and go and you feel hurt and deserted at first but times the greatest healer as the saying goes.I wish you good luck in the future and please take care and look after yourself.

Silverlady 5

[Hidden in reply to Silverlady5]

HI thank you and it is hard when you loose a friendship and they just don't want to be your friend anymore but it's more harder when you don't know why they said they don't want to be your friend anymore. I just feel that I don't have no one to be friends with at the moment x

[shoppaholicsue]

Hiya,

It sounds like you dodged a bullet there! I'm not sure they would have been a good friend to you anyway. Onwards and upwards I say!

I remained friends with an old school mate - for old times sake. I let things fizzle out when we were in our 40's - we both had different values.

Meet likeminded people on dog walks, at the gym or anything else that you're into. If not - you've always got us!

Sue

[Crystallady18 in reply to shoppaholicsue]

I totally agree Sue, I had a friend ghost me last year and it still gets me because it was so sudden and out of the blue, I keep reminding myself I “dodged a bullet” and I also remember Paulo Coelhos words from the Four Agreements: do not take anything personally. You’re not alone Edsheeran1. We’ve all been here and it’s human nurture to be upset and/or miffed by it, but keep finding gratitude for those in your life that are capable of love and for the love you have to give. ♥️

Cat

[Hidden in reply to shoppaholicsue]

Hi sue, that's great thanks yes after a while I did think that she was not a good friend to be with and I could not trust her, but to be honest with you it's not easy when you have lost a friendship. Yes do have other friends but sometimes I just feel I don't have no one, yes I know i have all off you on here. Where are you from X

[shoppaholicsue in reply to Hidden]

Hi,

I hope you’re feeling better about this now. As you can see- many of us have been though the same.

I’m in Essex, England by the way.

Sue

[Hidden in reply to shoppaholicsue]

Hui sue yes sort off just not easy at times x

[Joski45]

Hello, I know life seems really unfair when your friend/s disown you, and you feel alone and upset, but believe me in time you’ll find plenty more friends to make and socialise with, and some will stay and some will go, and it’s a big world out there. Perhaps within time your friend might come round to thinking differently, and if not that’s up to them and should possibly realise how precious a friendship is! I know it can be hard to form new friendships (been there, done that) but just be you and let it come naturally.

Remember your a great person, and keep on smiling. 😊😊

Jo x

[Hidden in reply to Joski45]

hi jo, hows you and thankyou for the message it means a lot, but yes its not easy at times and when you have tried to be friends with them and they push you away its just not easy. and time to time i do feel i have no friends but i hope i do on here. XX