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So this week i sadly lost my little sister to renal failure at the age of 27. Yesterday was her birthday, she would have been 28. I don't feel sad, happy, angry, or anything, i have emotional numbness. The funeral is going to be on feb 3rd, and its going to be really hard. I feel as though i can't speak openly to family or friends about how i feel. Would love a long term online friend, nothing sketchy, just someone to offer support, and who i could support too. I suffer from adhd, ptsd, personality dissorder, anxiety and depression. Im 30 y.o from north east england, but happy to speak to anyone. Thanks.

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Coolsfancy

My heart and prayers go out to for your loss.My sister passed away 6 years ago.

She had a seizure disorder and had a seizure on a Wednesday fell hit her head and that was it, lights out.

It’s been really hard for me to come to terms with that.

Like you said the funeral will be hard.

I couldn’t even speak at my sisters.

I’m not trying to over shadow your loss just trying to to be supportive and let you know your not alone.

I’m willing to talk to you anytime ever.

🤗 hugs Coolheart

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goldieoldie

Justlost,I am so sorry to hear of the loss of your younger person,,and know how bad you must feel, her life seems so short,and its very tragic indeed.Im an olde but if you need to talk PM me I am offering some support if you need it!r

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goldieoldie in reply to goldieoldie

that was sister not person pc seems to jump about sorry!

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JustLost in reply to goldieoldie

Thanks G.O like ive said, i think once the funeral has passed ill be able to start to move on, just going to be a struggle until then

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Laykonyde

I'm very sorry to hear you lost your sister. It's very very sad. Once lost a sister in 2004 due to a quack doctor operating on her when she was in labour. I still havent got over it.

I just want u to know your not alone.

Always available for chat if you want to.

Peace!

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JACQUI_

I feel for you, I lost my sister 11 years ago and still miss her daily, speak to your family if you can as they are probably feeling the same and talking about her and perhaps going over old photos of good times that you spent together can be really good. Talking about her with someone can be beneficial even if you do say the same things regularly, they are usually your most precious memories. If you want to chat with me you are more than welcome , take care Jacquix

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JW621

If you need friend just message me. I’ll be there

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