Guys I hate everyone around me and everyday I get up I just want to die I have so much of anxiety I married my husband but now I am bored there is no love in me for anyone at all I know I Being so bad but I am just not able to help it already my brother in law is divorced and I also want to but it will devastate my in laws so that’s why I am not able to take the step I think so so negative about everyone around me why can’t I be like others and love gosh I am so tired of myself don’t know what to do or what I want
Every morning I want to die - Mental Health Sup...
Marriage after a time can loose its sparkle, sad to say relationships change as we get on together with our joint lives, if we have children they can also cause a distraction and we all understand that. Our relationship however still means something We form a truce, marriage is like running a Company and we try to run it efficiently as we can. Life can be boring as mentioned above it is up to use to add various activities we enjoy together and that seems to work quite well for us.
Have you any interests you both enjoy various types of breaks, meeting people does help to reinforce the relationship does seem to work. We are members of various Societies also helps us with our interests of Historic Sites and Houses, gardens Castles etc, we have the same interests and that can make a relationship last
Do you have and joint interest you could do together. That is a different level in our relationship that prevents our relationship becoming Stale.
Have you tried to sit down and make positive plans where you reenter your marriage at a different level. Hobbies and diversions will help, something to look forward to. Marriage is not all Sex. How does your husband feel. ?
Try attending a Marriage Guidance Organisation so you can at least try and get your relationship back on track I am a Pensioner and we spend a great deal of time following our interests etc.
However if you need to move on, you move on, a separation and divorce just wastes resources.
It’s not as easy it is I am an aggressive person and I get hurt easily whatever my husband talk I don’t like the way he does and my brother in law is also weird and I am actually different and I feel these people are not according to me and I compare them with others as they are conservative but by heart they are nice at the same time their language is bad and my opinions doesn’t match but here in India it is though for a divorce I know all my mistakes but I am not able to accept them
You need to talk, life can be boring if we just sit around and do nothing Activities do not need to be expensive,
If you feel the need to consider a change you may be able to get His interests aroused.
Even just going for a walk together that can help.
Generally we are always busy, and we spend all our time together
I had a family where My Mother would call my wife. When she came to see use you could see she was not happy with what was given, and would sometimes look for things wrong, however in those days I did most of the cooking and we had not the heart to tell Her.
Now I prepare the food and Hazel cooks it and presents it. My Mother was toxic.