Ive got a list of health conditions. Mainly chronic pain and fatigue. When I was a teenager, these started to show. For years I went undiagnosed. It ws stressful for my family. Especially my mum.
Fast forward 11 years, Im disabled and I lost my independence was taken when i was unable to work. My mum had to come to my house in the middle of the night because id be screaming in pain. It went on for years...
But now my mum is having health issues. Mainly her heart. She was discussing things with a nurse while some tests were being done. And the nurse brought up how she had to look after her own daughter who was an adult now. And it actually caused her heart problems. My mum did mention this and how stress can cause it. Now its all i can think about. How I’ll put her in an early grave for her having to look after me. I’m 27, i cant lose my mum anytime soon.
Its making me suicidal. That this burden has been too high. That i should back off from everyone. Keep them out the fallout area.
Its heartbreaking. I know if I died my mum wouldnt be able to go on. She told me thjs herself. But i have to back off enough to stop her poor heart from damage. Im a reclusive mostly anyway. Have friends but i dont really soend a lot time with people. Mainly my mum and a select few. I leave the house only for a nights for game nignts.
I dunno, i feel like im creating this sickness around me that my family can get hurt.
What can i do..