I'm a guy, and i was in an abusive relationship...on top of a condition i have been getting help for

[Dregar]

So, i mentioned on here a few years ago that i hear voices. I finally got the courage and strength to get help for it, and my family didn't make it easy or stressless, but i've now been diagnosed with something (i cannot remember the name of), and am getting help for it. However, as i posted that problem, i was in the middle of an abusive relationship with a girl who (on multiple occassions) threatened to kill herself when i tried to break up with her. I couldn't let her kill herself, even if i believed she wouldn't, but i couldn't take the pain anymore. She would: humiliate me (tell lies to them about me) in front of my friends, hit me for making friends and after seeing friends, hit me because "i just felt like it", lie to me consistently, and even...do things i didn't want nor like. She broke up with me, earlier this year, by telling our college that i did to her what she did to me, lying to them about everything, and the college just bullied me (a nurse blocked me in a room with her just to be verbally abused by said nurse, and the college supported somebody who was stalking me and telling lies about me). I just want to forget everything, but my condition prevents me from doing so, and my ex is still getting into my life. She reported a few things to the police, of which i had not done, but she had done to me, and my mother had seen her standing outside my workplace at around 9am (and she works on the opposite side of town, and starts at around 9am). I want help, but i don't know where to turn to

[Hidden]

You got a solicitor on the case?

What happened to you is awful.

[Dregar in reply to Hidden]

Yeah, i had a free solicitor and it's cleared up, but it doesn't remove the fact that everybody she's told thinks i'm such a horrible person. I've always been nice, it's actually a problem, but i can't cope with people hating me over false accusations. I'm scared of my ex, and i'm scared of what she may do next...but i'm also scared of doing anything about it

[Hidden in reply to Dregar]

Maybe you need to sit and talk to someone who is in the know about this kind of thing, maybe the citizens advice or something like that can help you out.

[Hidden in reply to Dregar]

Check this link

mankind.org.uk/

[Dregar in reply to Hidden]

Thank you. People like you give me hope

[Hidden in reply to Dregar]

You are welcome, I hope the link is of use to you.

[Hidden]

If it was me i would try to secretly record her try to get her to admit her faults and lies and show everyone proofs that's she's insane. Worst part is most time in an abusive relationship people tend to believe the female

[fauxartist]

first thing to do is document everything, date, time, places, and what was said. Second...is get a restraining order...the second you see this person, and if they come anywhere near you, call 911 and tell them you are in fear for your life.....say nothing to this women, and if you can change schools do it. If you can have your parents back up your statements of abuse to the court to obtain a restraining order do it.....most importantly, under no circumstances should you talk to this person, or anyone affiliated with them. Respond to no one regarding person. Do not bad mouth them, or even discuss them...nothing, it all goes to character.....and yours is being sabotaged by a lunatic....she sounds like a sociopath or possibly worse. Your at risk not only from character assassination, but quite possibly physically.