BLUNT SEEMS TO WORK

[sweetiepye]

I asked for it and it's painful, but it works hard and fast. I have made some decisions but I'm still in limbo and will be for awhile. I called a lawyer and a realtor. Our house is sold and we have purchased a small modest condo, which won't be ready for 6 months. This gives me some time and money is tied up so I can take my time making decisions. I rushed my husband through this so fast he is dumbstruck and is now taking me quite seriously. In fact I'm taking myself quite seriously. I am beginning to feel like I can handle things. Thank you to everyone for your great advice and for being blunt . Being forced to confront your own responsibility in a situation is a real eye opener.If I start to waver I will be asking for more bluntness . Love to every one of you. Pam

[Celtic27]

Hi pam it must be girl power ? Hope your feeling well not chatted for a while ! I wish you well in your new condo and hope you stay well and enjoy it god bless you all david x

[sweetiepye in reply to Celtic27]

Hi David, I hope you are doing well. I am living in that space between absolute euphoria and sheer terror. Trying to dance as fast as I can. Pam

[En1234]

Well done you!! I have decided I am going to live also by my own rules and there is only one rule and that is:

"Girl, if you don't like something..............Change it!!"

I,ve made loads of changes in the last couple of months and feel really great for it!!

Good luck to you Pam (my own name is Theresa by the way!!.. )

Hope you keep posting and we can keep chatting!!

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[sweetiepye in reply to En1234]

Thank you. I'm usually ready for a chat

[PMRPete]

Here's wishing YOU all the best.

Pete

[sweetiepye in reply to PMRPete]

Thank you. You're the best. Pam

[WhiteAlice]

Pam, I haven't been on here in a long while, but when I was you were absolutely wonderful to me & everyone. It helped get me through a very dark time. I have been in your situation a number of times (can I pick 'em, or what?) I have struggled financially, physically, and emotionally, but I must say, even though the price is high, freedom is well worth it!! I'm glad to see you've mad a move. Now keep making whatever changes are necessary for YOU!! You deserve to be treated graciously & lovingly. Perhaps he deserves to be alone. Find your happiness & don't let anyone tarnish it. Live ya!

[sweetiepye in reply to WhiteAlice]

WhiteAlice, I remember you. Thank you for the very kind words. I always get more then I give when trying to help people and the things I learn about myself through other peoples problems is just amazing. I hope you stick around for awhile you give good advice. Pam

[clovislorry]

I'm so happy for you that you are taking charge of your life and wish you all the best in the world. Keep looking forward and planning for the life that makes you happy. xxx