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Hey everyone just put out another post on my blog if you can give it a read and comment. Would really appreciate it. Just talking about somethings that I think. Finally expressing my feelings. ESPECIALLY in my latest one. So yeah please give it a read. Thank you

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Iluvhorses

Hey there! Money isn't the only way for you to make others happy. You should also tell them how much you love them and show it as well. There needs to be a healthy balance between money and affection. Trust me I know because I was raised by a single uncle. He made a lot of money and gave me everything I wanted, but showed little affection. As a result, I was still unhappy.

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Themalemind in reply toIluvhorses

Yes that's true but that doesn't change the fact that my family struggle. Which makes them stressed and even depressed. So to have money and take this weight off their shoulders would be amazing and they know how much I love them but that cloud is always over us and especially makes them feel down.

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Iluvhorses in reply toThemalemind

I see what you're saying, but just remember that money is not the full definition of love. You said you have a gambling addiction. Well it's hard to quit something cold turkey so maybe you could find something else to do that would replace gambling. A healthier alternative. That way you're not constantly thinking about your urge to gamble and you're not constantly resisting the urge. You'll have something else to occupy your mind.

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Themalemind in reply toIluvhorses

I wouldn't say addiction. I haven't in a long time. When I did that big loss I jus stopped. It hurt too much. And yes that's true just which I could take some weight off their shoulders so they don't need to worry about anything. Thank you for the advice and reading by the way. I really appreciate it

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