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[Charmerbluegirl]

Do you ever get that feeling like there's nobody there to talk to. I feel so alone sometimes I know I have God an everything but I guess once you get to attached to people it's hard when they leave you. I seriously don't know what to feel it's hard just knowing their there an just won't say anything. Huh I feel like giving up sometimes cause what's the point of holding on to something that your only one fighting for it. I seriously dislike meeting people an getting attached to them an then they just suddenly one day forget about you. It's like I could try to forget them but I can't I actually miss them and I don't know why cause their not worth missing. I think something's wrong with me I don't know what to do. I just wanna forget about them an move on in life. It's probably one of my greatest regrets oh an there are many great ones. I just feel so hurt like they broke me but what do I do?

[gkskfangs]

hello there~ i get you, really. it is hard to accept when people we are attached to go away from us. and it hurts trying to move on and lying to ourselves that we can forget them too. what's worse is that they never realise they broke us.

but i gotta say that's how some relationships are - be it with friends or lovers. it happened to me and took me months of feeling low and depressed questioning what did i lack in our relationship, why they still go away when i need them the most. and now i just don't expect anything from anyone except my family members.

i know it'll be hard for you to meet new people and get close, but i'm wishing for you to have someone who truly understands you and will be there for you. as much as we say we hate to be attached to anyone, we still need someone to lean on at some point. also, hope you'd be stronger too.

please don't be sad, and for now find and do things that you like. focus on yourself, put yourself as #1. good things will come to you soon. take care.

[Charmerbluegirl in reply to gkskfangs]

Thank you so much for your words of encouragement and I'm not sure if I'd move on as fast but I have to anyways I just need too.

[mysmugcat]

Yes I know what you mean. I like animals a lot like my own tabby hence my user name mysmugcat. Sometimes I feel people even my own family give me lip service, then want to get on with their own life. But then some people have worse than me.

[Frozenimages]

I feel the same way a lot. I have a partner who has disorder that can be emotionally and verbally abuse. Yesterday he had a rage that scared me so bad, I felt like I had to do something. I felt alone, scared, like there was nobody that could help. I reached out to the national abuse hotline. It was very helpful. I didn't want to talk to anyone on the phone, but they have online chat. thehotline.org/what-is-live... There is also the option for suicide prevention chat online crisischat.org/chat. You may not have those kinds of feelings, but they have trained professionals that will talk you through your time of need. They don't judge, they just offer support. The things you are feeling are valid. Posting on forums like this and reaching out to advocates can be very helpful in times of need. You're not alone and there's nothing wrong with you. Nobody deserves to feel like they aren't worthy of friendship and love.

[Charmerbluegirl]

Thank you this is so true hope everything works out for you