Born A Mistake

I am a mistake I swear I am always causing problems Idk what to do anymore

[MAS_Nurse]

Hi there Struggler-Z, I can assure you that you are not born a mistake, we are all born for a reason, sometimes it can take time to understand these reasons. From your recent posts which I have read through, you really seem to be having a difficult time and struggling at the moment. I hope that getting your thoughts and feelings posted on this forum helps you to know that a lot of people care for you and want to support you as best they can, with good advice and lots of encouragement too. So I am asking our very informative and kind community members to reach out and support our troubled friend here, to try and make him believe in himself and to believe in his own self worth, to try and help him through this difficult time. Have you a mental health support team I wonder and if not, can I encourage you to go along and make an appointment to see your GP, so that you can start getting the support you need. Have you thought about joining any walking or running clubs near you, that might help you to meet people and also exercise can be good and make us feel better by releasing endorphins, the feel good factor. Just try and believe that things can and do get better over time, maybe keeping a diary of your thoughts and feelings might help, so that you can show this to your doctor or counsellor. Please let us know how you are doing and also take good care of yourself, you are a special person and deserve to feel happy, ,,,,,,,,wishing you lots of good luck and hope you feel a bit better soon,,,,,,,,,,,with my very best wishes to you...........

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Yes it has helped me alot I just started writing again the other day which has helped me

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..born a mistake coz you cause problems?..you are learning coz of your mistakes more like it..just like rules are there to be broken..that's why we do mistakes to learn from them ..to me you are on the right track brother..no mistake here..I dont think you purposely want to cause problems..Do you want to tell us what problems you think you are causing?...I'm here for you

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My dad is a dead beat I just want him to be gone. I was on probation for a while I continue to look back on that mistake. I give attitudes here and there which my parents basically threatened to kick me out when i turn 17 if I give any attitude.

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Its hard being human sometimes

[JuneShultz1011]

You'd be a problem if You never made Mistakes x Be Human, And accept it and them, If You can, Change them.

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I am trying my best.

[Frozenimages]

The previous comments are correct. Making mistakes means you are human. If you learn from your mistakes and grow, it shows that you are trying. The feeling like you are always causing problems isn't true. I mess up, a lot. There are days where I feel I shouldn't even gotten out of bed because from the moment I stood up, everything has gone wrong. The days where you feel lost and don't know what to do, allow yourself to feel this way. Take a pause from the chaos of life and everything. It's hard to do. I find I'm constantly mentally running through the million things I have to do and sometimes I have to hit the brakes. If I don't from time to time, I feel extremely overwhelmed and that's when everything seems to go wrong. I have to repeat to myself over and over that I was given this life because I am strong enough to live it. Feeling this way is validate. You're not a mistake.

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Thank you this has made me feel some what better, but I just pause and listen to music because I am always misunderstood I tend to give attitude to my parents which I get yelled at I got told when I turn 17 if I give any attitude they threaten to kick me out