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Sick of it

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Verbal abuse again from my daughter as I can't do what she wants me to do . Fed up all nite . She tells me over an over how selfish I am and I've always done so much for her. I'm not the mum she wants ?

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kinikia95

Sometimes when our children are having problems they want to blame us because that's the popular thing. If you owe her an apology give her that and be done with it. If you need to fix something then fix it. If you haven't done anything wrong then just accept that she is on her own thing and she needs help. Try to help her get help ig needed.

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mysmugcat

Hi I'm sorry to hear this. Can I ask what country you live in I may be able to give you a phone number/s?

Hi I would personally tell her to take a hike until she can learn to keep her potty mouth under control! No matter what has happened in the past she has no right to be calling you names and she needs to learn the boundaries. Make it clear to her that this isn't acceptable and you are not going to tolerate it any more. x

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Mia51

Rachaella,This might sound harsh but I have a mature daughter who went through a couple of years being the very same.For a long time I was absolutely heart broken at the way she treated me.One day I decided enough,I wiped her out of my life completely for about 8 months.Only because we had a serious illness in the family we started communicating again.What a difference now,she treats me with respect and love.Tough love works.Hope things get better for you.

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