Why am I thinking the worst of feeling like crap
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I'm not sure what you're asking. Is there something good about feeling like crap? If so I need to know as I frequently feel like crap.
lparkinson• in reply to
Not at all wud never wish to b feelinglike this
Course not. Keep trying it's all we can do. I feel rubbish n had panic again this morning. Am trying to keep busy busy busy. It's hard I know. Wish u well x
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So whats going on with you?My reason for feeling like crap at the moment is my husband. We've been married 51 years, he has always blamed me for everything bad that happens. If the dog throws up, it's my fault. You'd think I would be used to this by now, but every once in a while it really gets me down. I guess that's why your post caught my eye, I feel like crap.
Imight as well tell you the whole bit. He made dinner, sat down and started eating without telling me it was ready. When I came in to see what was taking so long I asked why he hadn't called me . He said he'd just sat down and was going to call me. I noticed half the food on his plate had been eaten. A small thing I guess,but my days are filled with these small things. VM
lparkinson• in reply to
Just in feel spaced out had blood tests n all normal but keep thinking it's something I know blood tests wud have shown it
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Hello
Yes the blood tests will show if you have something wrong physical, it will not show depression. The main us of bloods is to cver a spectrum of illness.
If you are depressed, see your GP again and discuss your concerns.
I may be wrong although I read above you have changed your medication. In that case time is a matter to be considered as AD take time before they work.
If this is not the case discuss all with your GP
BOB
lparkinson• in reply to
Yes very true that's they sure would
juls• in reply to
OMG... well your not the problem are you, and you know that , dont you ..? i find ignoring does the trick and when he asks whats up say YOU...say nothing else he will have to wonder make him think about his actions, no words are better . im ot surprised you feel like crap. YOUR NOT CRAP .... DONT LET ANY ONE MAKE YOU FEEL THIS WAY.. XX
Photogeek• in reply to
Hi there reading your Post made me so sad that you are treated like this. I know it's easy to get beaten down by someone treating you like this, but I would find it very hard to NOT be depressed if I was living with your husband. Can you talk to him about how
Much his behaviour hurts you? Or is he a lost cause? You sound like such a lovely woman and I am sending you a big hug.
Hannah
lawlaw99• in reply to
Lol me too ! X
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Hello Vintage-me
Did you get you teeth sorted ?.
BOB
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Oh thank- you for asking. Tomorrow is the day for 2 root canals. Had to wait for infection to leave and it took it's time.Will be happy to have it over.VM
We are actually basically negative thinking personalities. For example if some near and dear is getting late coming home,we always think of bad things . But we over come these negative thoughts by our education and training to think positively. Our upbringing, our self control etc, etc , all exert controlling influences. So some times we do become weak and let negative impulses overtake us. But it is a matter of time we will be surely overcoming this negativity.
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Well, I was hoping someone would say i'm married to a jerk, but I can see that I might want to examine my own reactions. Thank-you, VM
juls• in reply to
well yes he is a jerk and it' s like he takes it out on you because your there , we do take things out on our spouses i suppose but there seems to be a void in his life .. so getting at you is making him feel he has control over you. NOOOOOOO.. takes nothing to be civil bet he doesnt treat any one else like this.. and he acts like the perfect husband in front of others.. not acceptable your his wife not his punch bag.. mentally i mean .. yes he is a jerk ,, i could think of another word but id get banned ahahha x good luck sweets
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Your description fits him to a T
Thank-you, vm
juls• in reply to
well i was married to a big jerk controlled every part of my life and i let him.. i know the felling of what your going through hun.. i got rid of that ass hole. no one should make you feel like your an idiot to put it bluntly. i cant tell you what to do but you have a life too. sod him IGNORE HIM .. give him the silent treatment works wonders..
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Well yes you are married to a jerk! I do agree with that. No wonder you suffer from depression after a lifetime with him! . x
Photogeek• in reply to
Ha ha VM yes never mind all this holy holy stuff, and do not blame yourself, he is a Jerk and you are a lovely woman. Do you see yourself staying with him? It's very bad for your mental health to live with someone like this. I think if it was me there would be a murder. Lol.
Now m sure someone will Post and tell me "I'm weak and am letting negative impulses overtake me". Ha ha I never heard such rubbish,
Some people are living In La La land or is it me? I cannot relate to these Posts, does anyone else feel the same?
Ok luv look after yourself and be kind to yourself .
Hannah x
Yes, please.
what is sms
Yes, i would like another task only because then they would have my number.
Photogeek• in reply to
Yes VM sending 3 text messages to complete strangers could be dangerous and get us locked up. Now I wonder what your next task will be? Thus site does make me laugh at times. It takes all sorts I guess.
Good luck with your dentist.
Hannah
I know what you are going through husband is going through some sort of crisis and he says he is dying calls me names and basically it is getting to the point where I have had enough for the last 7 years.
My husband's always in a bad mood. He's so nice to friends and his family though. I've seen him literally switch from ranting and raving to smiling and being all nice to someone he knows in the street within seconds. I think these people would be shocked if they knew how he acted behind closed doors.
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