Thank You

[AnnieQ]

Thank you for all the messages of support. I loved Annie. She was a beautiful girl who never believed in herself and always thought she was a burden on me and the boys. I know she didn't want to hurt me and that, in some ways, all the things she did were a cry for help. Take care of yourselves.

[Stilltrying_]

Ah and thank you too. Please look after yourself the best you can; and the boys without their mum it will be hard for them and you will need to find a way of explaining to them that it wasn't anything they had done wrong as children can think these sort of things without you realising that they do. It may be hard for them to understand about their mum's illness but personally I feel honesty is always the best policy. You sound like a sensible and caring person anyway so I'm sure you will have worked out how best to handle things. Sending you all hugs,

Gemmalouise X

[Photogeek]

Thank you for this, I hope you find the strength to go forward with

Your boys at this difficult time. Annie seemed like a bright lovely woman,

I'm sure you will handle it well as you sound like a lovely compassionate man.

I'm not sure what age the boys are, but you will have to do what you can for them

Now. Warm wishes to you and God give you strength .

Hannah

[baxie]

So sorry to read about Annie. You have my deepest condolences. Please take care of yourself and your boys.

[Hidden]

Hi I have been reading through some of Annie's back posts and remember now that her feelings of worthlessness began in her childhood. The best legacy you can leave her is to make sure her boys have a better upbringing which enables them to feel valued and loved with a strong sense of their own worth to enable them to lead fulfilling and happy lives. I am sure you have both been instilling this in them and you will carry this on successfully.

Many of us here had negative upbringings which led to depression and feelings of low self worth.

It is going to be hard for you as they are bound to be deeply affected by Annie's death and I wish you all the luck and love in the world.

If it helps you to understand how she felt please stay with us here as long as you need to and hopefully it will help you and the boys find some sort of closure and be able to move on in time.

Lots of love and hugs.

Bev xx

[celtic2746]

Hi sorry to hear of annies passing.she was a great help to those who knew her my condolonences to you and your family. David

[AnnieQ]

Thank you David. I am pleased she was able to help you. She always wanted to help others, but couldn't help herself at times. I miss her.