I feel like im goning crazy

[dmom51]

i dont no what to do. I have been with this man for 20 years and he makes me feel like i am gong crazy. he twist storys make me feel like i am the one that is alway wrong or to blame

[shaughnna]

In my opinion and experience it sounds like he is using these methods to control you. It can also be a form of psychological abuse. aka emotional or mental abuse, which can be very serious..

(Been there and got out) Someone who does that is not into your best interest, only his own.

You might want to google a few therapy sites and punch in emotional abuse and see if what they describe sounds similar to what is going on in your life.

Good luck

Shaughnna

[Leonora14]

I have been through a similar experience and trust me it's not you, I spent two years of my life locked in a very toxic relationship nothing I ever did was good

Enough. I went through intensive therapy for serve depression an anxiety which helped me see it wasn't my fault but guess what I still didn't leave! It's not easy but left when I realised I would never be in a good mental state if I remained. Being selfish is ok in these situations

[Hidden]

Hi

Whatever is going on in the relationship it does not sound good for you. Is it possible for you to talk with a counsellor, your GP could refer you. That way you can begin to think about what is going on between the two of you.

Suex

[Photogeek]

Hi this man does not sound to me like he is doing you any good. A partner should

Not make you feel like this, of course you can leave him if you are not happy

With his behaviour, have you friends or family? What do they think? If you are not

Happy leave him, why stay with someone who is upsetting you like this. It does

Not look good for the future and 20 years, is a long long part of your life.

Hannah

[coatpin]

hes a misogamist "men who hates woman and the woman who love them", a great book, to help you to recognize the behaviour, stop it, and leave if it gets to a abusive stage if he dont get his own way. Your head wont clear while your with him, you need to mend away from that !!

[coatpin]

No wonder your depressed. Hes cruel, some men think its funny, or they have lost respect for you.

You need to ask yourself some hard questions.

Are you with him out of habit or need.

does he support you, or even love you anymore.

Could he be one main reason your depressed.

Hes a masogonist!! men who hate woman and the woman that love them, hoping and wishing hed change,,, good book read it. I think you have the answers,,,,, leave him.