Totally freaked out right now..

[butterflykiss]

Hi everyone..

To say my day was mad wouldn't even be close to what has happened this day. I had to go see my therapist this morning and during that meeting my son Shane Conor(RIP wee man) was just one of the thing's we spoke about and about how he passed away. When i got home i couldn't get in to my bedroom coz the door was locked (locks only from the inside) tight shut, so i went and checked the windows but they were shut tight. I really thought some one was playing a prank on me for sure but when my son and step son came to see what was wrong i new they couldn't have done it..When i got into the room i found my glasses that had been missing for exactly 7 day's sitting by my bed.They were not there because not only did i search but my friend also. I just can't get it right in my head and yep i am freaking out a little...All my family have said the same thing that it's Shane Conor letting you no he is here but i would say he comes as a butterfly to let me no..I just can get the locked door and my glasses out of my head. I would love to hear what others think about this. Do they think it could be my son..

Thanks xxx

[Gambit62]

The universe is a strange place and there are lots of things human beings like to think they understand and yet they don't necessarily understand. A little sense of wonder is a good thing.

Try not to be freaked out about it all. I know it all seems really weird.

We've all had experiences of looking for things several times and turning the house upside down and finding it in a place that we know we have already looked ... I like to think of it as a manifestation of quantum mechanics - which really only applies at the very, very small level of sub atomic particles and is more to do with the way our concepts of particles and waves which work well for us in the real world, don't quite fit the facts when we start looking at really big or really little things ... so sometimes things that we think of as particles behave like waves ... so my theory is that whatever I was looking for decided to be somewhere else when I was looking but is back where it should be know.

I must sound like the craziest lady alive but hope you are getting the message that there could be crazier ways of looking at what's happened ...

[sallyann53]

Yes your son is trying to comfort you & your profile photo is a sign...iff you like books try & go to a book shop & look at the variety of Angel books x

[Hidden]

Hello BOB here

There seems to be something going on generally I have had little things that have had in the past, makes me wonder if the Dead are just on an alternative universe, where they have a chance on occasions to interact with us, where a cloud lifts and we see a limited view

We have in the past lived in a family home and some strange thing have happened over the last thirty five years, Now we live in a different area and there is something missing, and our lives at the new address is very good and better although we miss that interaction

All the best

[butterflykiss]

Thank you everyone and Gambit62 you do make a lot of sense there to me anyway so no your not on your own. I am just taking it for what it is and yes i do hope that there is another place or universe or whatever because life to me doesn't end end when we die, it just begins in a new place. I also do believe that those who have passed and who have been very close to us in this life are now watching over us and helping us choose the right path..Thank you all again for your mgs they all made me feel better xxx

Kazza xxx

[Hidden]

Hi

After a loss we all try to make meaning out of what happens and I would guess your experiences are part of that process. It is difficult to accept that some things simply happen and sadly may not have any meaning at all, they are just very sad events.

Suex