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can anyone give tips how can i make her orgasm through oral sex and fingering?

Whenever I stimulate her Clitoras she says to stop and do penetration .

And when i lick her she says Clitoras fells like it is burning

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beardy_chris

You can never *make* your partner orgasm. You need to work with her to find out what she likes and wants. Don't impose your own likes and wants. Everyone is different. Don't take advice from here (including my advice!). Talk to each other!

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JailorJon

Hear, hear. Ask your partner how she reaches an organism on her own. Help her to relax and consider non vaginal stimulation.

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SetteeSofa

You need to talk candidly together about what she does and doesn't find enjoyable. I had a girlfriend who would push my mouth and hand away whenever I tried to stimulate her clit - she said it was so sensitive that it was painful. Be guided by what she tells you she enjoys, and not what you think she ought to enjoy. Explore and discover her other erogenous zones, and don't forget to spend quality time with her breasts and nipples. Man, it's great fun for you both, believe me.

Good luck!!

:) :) :)

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jaglad

There are lots of ways to try, and experimenting is good. The best we found when together is if I take her from behind whilst on our sides, spooning, that way I can thrust nicely whilst she plays with herself. I am also able to feel her Tits and the arse cheeks which is good.Girl on top is also good for this.

Experiment and try new things, listen to each other and have fun.

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secretgirl

i know it can be hard for girls to attain orgasm with a boy, so it may be why she does't want to spend too much time on that area. Some girls also think that direct contact on the clitoris may be not fun. Be more gentle and go on the side, come back, go around, turn her on, give her little kisses, Dont be too harsh,. Girls have a lot of nerves on this aera so going too hard can just make it hurt. You could also try using sex toys. Toys are not a concurrent, but a friend ;) The orgasm is also linked to the mental, so talk to her, make her feel good. The most important is to talk to her so you really know what she likes. Know her fantasm ;) <3 hope that helps

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