Am i asking too much?.

[skipper847]

Hi. I didn't no where else to ask this in this forum so hope you dont mind me posting this.

I am 37, 38 in January. I have a couple of health issues from kidney transplant to other health issues so i dont work and on benefits. I still live with my parents but this last 3 years ive been wanting my own place and this last 6 month been worst. I have asked my parents for help to see the housing department for help to see if i can get my own place. Instead of helping me and seeing if i can get more benefits for getting my own place my parents give me negatives and say i cant move out and they dont want me to. The negative has nothing to do with money either.

I just want my own space and feel like they are breathing down my neck and checking up on me every 2nd. Also i like it quiet on a night and have to wait until they go to bed as there up till late and watching TV and talking but we live in a small house and noise carries.

I can live on my own as they do go away a lot as both are retired but always thinking they have to come back as they only go for a week and have a couple of weeks be for they go off again.

I no i already claim benefits but am i asking too much if i want my own house or space. This last 6 month or so has been getting me down and just want my own place.

Sorry for spelling and grammar and long post. Thanks.

[Ryanr]

If your in the uk you need to get on the housing association list and get your parents to write a letter to the council saying that you are putting stress on them and causing them health related stress problems as they can’t cope anymore sounds shitty I know but it worked for me and my girlfriend at the time 7 years ago. The best thing to do would be to speak/see someone from citizens advice and tell them your situation and ask them to help you enrol on the housing list (if your in the uk) best of luck 👍

[skipper847]

Hi yes I'm from the UK Thanks for replies.

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Im the same..Im 42 and im getting out and nothing is stopping me..I dont care about benefits etc..I just want out..I too get the negativity but I don't care any more ..di what's best for you..Im here if you want to chat