anejaculation

[Nomorecum]

Hi my name is jarred, I had major surgery for lower sigmoid bowel cancer, I had 6-8 inches of bowel removed and resectioned, I know suffer from anejaculation where nothing comes out, its horrible

[xsevenx]

So sorry to read your post. Do you still experience the feeling of orgasm? I hope so. What does your surgeon have to say on the matter?

[Nomorecum in reply to xsevenx]

hi there, yeah i still experience an orgasm its not as strong though, my surgeon said due to the operation the parasympathetic and sympathetic nerves that control erectial function and ejaculation get damaged and can cause the symtoms i suffer from, sadly it most likely permanent, it sux, im cancer free so I shudn't complain at all, i just wanted to see if anyone else suffers from the same condition. It saved me a vasectomy as I have enough children with the wife but it just makes me sad thats all that it dosent work like it use to

[Omniscient1 in reply to Nomorecum]

I went like this after a prostate op, so different circumstances. I get the sad bit, me too!. But I chalked it up to the general degradation as I get older ( which I don't give in to btw). But I still orgasm so it means there's less mess. It also means (ahem) that any wetness after the deed is down to her not me, which lets say makes me smile.

[Nomorecum in reply to Omniscient1]

haha awesome, I feel a bit better to know im not alone in this and appreciate ur reply.

And yes I hear ya about less mess 😂

It still sux though😩 because sometimes i feel i cant be bothered doin it because i know theres no end result and it often takes me longer to orgasm because i know nothn is gna happen at the end.

[Nomorecum in reply to Omniscient1]

And being circumsized since the day i was born grinds my gears even more

[Omniscient1 in reply to Nomorecum]

Can't comment on the circumcision as I'm uncut, seems to me some guys like it, some don't. As to the other, seems to me that over our lives our sex habits change, I mean, duration, number of times, positions, quicker, slower, etc. so see it as you're going through one of those changes and it'll maybe settle into something you and Mrs Nomorecum are happy with.

[Nomorecum in reply to Omniscient1]

😂 thanks i appreciate ur responce

[8thfloorben]

I know nothing about this but I'd ask your doc. Good luck mate