Masturbate technique

[ahuman2]

can someone teach me a good masturbation technique? send me a chat huhu thanks

[xsevenx]

Only you can really find out what pleasures you the most. So experiment. And certainly try edging.

[Jcoady234]

Try up and down then up and down then up and down then up and down that usually works 😂

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That's the simple way to explain it 😁

[Luigi323]

Flesh light

[Hidden]

I supose you are just beginning and find it difficult to ejaculate, it took me a long time to realise it happens in its own time and def I always need lube, you have to persevere. I always start by gently sqeezing my shaft till my penis is erect and hard then add lube watching porn helps I use two fingers and thumb and slowly work up and down fom base to the edge of my foreskin (I have been circumsised),when I am really hard I use my whole hand on all my shaft and tip slowly at first the slightly faster but always gently usually works.Sometimes I gently spank my bum to keep my shaft hard.Hope this helps but there is no rush or shame just enjoy your body at your own pace

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It depends person to person, try changing grip on your cock and experimenting things, see how long you can go for as well etc. Are you circumcised or not?

[BarrySimpson]

For some people, all 5 senses - sight, touch, smell, sound and taste - cause arousal, but my own personal preference does not include taste. I have the impression that sight tends to be more arousing for men than for women but would be interested to hear the ladies' views on this one, and indeed what else causes arousal.

As well as the 5 senses there is our imagination. What happens between my ears has a vital effect on what happens between my legs. Sometimes my imagination is stimulated by some of the senses but it also works independently.

For me, the senses and my imagination work on the erogenous areas covered by my knickers - my penis, testicles and my bum, both my anus and my cheeks. This is probably why my knickers have been so important for me in arousal. I have never been greatly aroused by massaging or kissing my nipples, or touching other parts of my body such as my back, ears or neck, although I understand that some men are. I have noticed that most other men when masturbating work much harder on their penis shafts than I do. I like to take it gently, stimulating my bum hole which, ever since puberty has played such a big part in masturbation for me and fondling my cheeks to make my penis as hard as I can, then I complete my orgasm by playing with my glans. I always keep this exposed by lodging my foreskin under the overhang. Keeping my foreskin rolled back keeps me erect or nearly so for part of the day. If I need help to harden my erection I squeeze the base of my penis gently to find the locations of the veins draining blood out of it. By restricting the outflow my penis becomes more engorged with blood and hardens.

Relaxing and getting in the right frame of mind are so important to me. My aim is to get control of my penis, to be able to move it up and down and side-to-side without touching it, but as I have got older that has become more difficult: usually I need a little gentle touching.

Exchanges of messages on forums and chat rooms have aroused me. I never use medications or toys.

I stimulate by bum as an early stage of getting an erection and in masturbation. I get some arousal simply by using a mirror to watch my bum hole and cheeks, but I get more by playing with my fingers.

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I get considerable stimulation from visual sources. The Internet gives a wide choice. I find that to get the best effect I have to use my imagination - what is the model likely to be feeling? What might be going through her mind? Women wearing sensible full-cut panties, bare breasts often arouse me: here the visual and sense of touch meet as I imagine the soft material of their knickers caressing their cheeks. Visual contact of the woman with the camera can set off a chain of thought in me: her tense smile, flushed cheeks and erect nipples reveal her erection, perhaps orgasm; discharges from her vagina and nearby glands are soaking into the gusset of her knickers stimulating my imagination of their musty scents. Thongs on big bums turn me on as I imagine the stimulation in my bum crevice and hole. Naked shemales ejaculating with only light touching or none at all always make me very hard.

I find that my body hair affects my ability to become aroused. We all have our own preferences from all hair intact to completely shaven with many styles in between.

I like to shave completely - except when working as a nude model at a venue where it was considered immodest not to keep at some hair above the penis. The majority of lady models I met kept some hair too so as not to expose their clitorises and lips so clearly. When I do not have a friend to help me to shave my bum crack, I use a mirror. I bend over, legs apart, parting my cheeks with one hand shaving one side of my crevice with the other hand. Then I would change hands to shave the other side. No-one ever commented at any of the modelling venues about my hairless cheeks and crevice, even though some of the poses showed them clearly.

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The methods I have used to masturbate have evolved only slowly with experience and increasing age. At first I used the face down position lying on my front and squeezing with my cheeks. I increased my excitement by fixing mirrors in positions where I could watch my cheeks squeezing together. Sometimes I would turn onto my back, bring my legs up, soles together to expose my bum hole. At home I might use a mirror to watch it while I played with my penis and testicles.

When I was younger, usually I became erect when naked. I could sometimes be so excited when naked, especially when standing in front of a mirror or taking exercise such as yoga, that I would have a spontaneous orgasm and ejaculation without touching.

Not long after puberty, I found that handling myself, legs apart, in a standing position was often more fulfilling than lying down. When stood up I had a harder erection. I would cup my testicles in my left hand while rubbing the base of my glans by flicking my foreskin backwards and forwards over it. I have found this a good position for prolonging my enjoyment by 'edging' - letting my semen swill around my testicles and up and down my penis, pulling back just before orgasm. With a really hard erection when standing, my penis is bent upwards at about the same angle as a woman's vagina points upwards and backwards; my penis moves up and down, side to side, without touching it, as I come to orgasm when my semen squirts out 3 or 4 times at intervals of a few seconds.

I have also tried to develop and prolong spontaneous orgasms by relaxation and concentration supplemented by yoga exercises.

Let's leave the last words to Betty Dodson from her guide Sex for One (1987) 'The most consistent sex will be the love affair you have with yourself. Masturbation will get you through childhood, puberty, romance, marriage and divorce, and it will see you through old age.'

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