Gents, now 5 weeks post op and managed to masturbate successfully earlier this week. I noticed it took a lot longer, partly due to being very gentle and also to get used to a routine. Tried again today and didn’t manage to climax.
I’ve had a look at some websites online about technique but none of them were very helpful. Anyone been through a similar experience and found better ways or have recommendations?
Not unduly concerned as its still early days but keen to hear any tips/recommendations.
Feel free to PM me if easier.
TIA.
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As a senior and had been gone through the circumcision twice by choice, dear cut bros, first of all welcome to the cut club.
The tips from my side is, use coconut oil as lube, instead of stimulating entire penis, try work only on your permanently exposed glans. You will explode the amount of cum. Make sure there is some nice, erotic material to keep your lil bro stand strong.
Another way is you can use lube that specifically created for men and penis- friendly instead some random cream. Despite this, any question do you guys have?
What’s happening is normal because of critical physical changes that have just occurred to your body. Your foreskin not only kept the glans moist, but also contained sensitive nerves which worked with the nerves in the glans to provided necessary sexual stimulation. The foreskin also helped in easy motion which you have been used to for several years (since birth).
Although the scar may have completely closed the body will continue to heal for several more weeks to rebuild and add more blood vessels, and nerves both of which are essential for proper functioning of your body.
Since the foreskin is gone you have to now slowly get used to this critical physiological change. You have to now explore the area and identify which are the most erogenous parts and what turns you on more and what can be done to achieve orgasm.
Some people also experience some pain and minor swelling and redness initially when they try to masturbate. And this change coupled with post orgasm pain/discomfort can make you feel angry and frustrated.
So I would recommend you to be patient and not get frustrated or angry. Accept this change and try to adjust. What I think also helps is waiting for a few (4-5) more weeks to allow for better healing which will also give your more confidence. During this period it’s okay to slowly explore the penis and enjoy your new skinless (and tighter) erections when they occur.
Out of interest has anyone been in a jacuzzi and/or steam room since their op? Now 5 weeks in and thinking about giving it ago as healed well and desperate for the bubbles!!
Hello yea I’m 8 weeks out and I have only climax twice !! Once I masterbated and the other from the wife giving me oral but had to master bate during. It’s harder now than before
I would recommend a toy. I have been cut all my life, since birth. I am in the process of restoring my foreskin. But if you are still healing don’t use a fleshlight or any other toy and wind up going to hard at it and you mess yourself up, like tear your shaft skin or something. If you do get a toy, just be gentle and use lube and just take your time.
Guys, it is difficult to cum with your hand once circumsized. If you had the foreskin and now you don’t it takes time. I did it when I was teen with hands but when I discovered male masturbator toys in my 20s, man it just made things easier for me and those trips away from home.
Again, whatever you do just give your body time to heal and if you get a toy, go slow.
Some guys, especially who got cut at birth thinks foreskin is something they lost. Some may thinks that foreskin is better than cut. But in my opinion, who got cut by choice for cosmetic reason, and had met many men like him, who used to be a foreskin restorer and later decided to do not restore, circumcised is the best thing a men can do. It is depend on the men, how enjoyable he feel on each sexual, intimate session he had with his tool down there. Rushing on each session definitely will make all the consequences he said. I never rushed my sessions. I at least took 1 hour minimum for orgasm and each orgasm were explosive.
I got circumcised 2 weeks ago due to paraphimosis. I am 26 years old. It could never fully erect. Once my foreskin was below my penis head, it strangled my penis and it was uncomfortable. My foreskin was tight when it was erected. When flaccid, everything was fine.
After the surgery, i suddenly felt sad and a bit emotional. It's physiological change. Do you think it's normal? Circumcision is my choice after having consulted with my urologist.
No, its just some feeling of insecure that's all. You no need to restore it or think about it at all. Those who think to restoring for any reason are just anti- circumcision I would say. Believe me, I got rid off my own foreskin altogether although it's very healthy( no problem but upon aesthetic reason and sexual pleasure as cut men explodes more often if he uses the right technique, and porn stars are great example for it). So you better be patient and enjoy your newly accustomed tool. If really foreskin is te source of gliding, no do men would need thick meat instead a few skin bunches are enough just like those girls who would spread their legs for pleasuring us? in one word for pleasurable sex, men need not foreskin buy techniques.
I am restoring for a couple of reasons: to keep my glans moist and aid in sexual intercourse. It’s a bit rough and the foreskin adds the gliding that is needed. It’s a process.
be happy about that (lasting longer). Me since 10 years struggling if being circumcised would help lasting more than 1 minute during sex. ("foreskin contained sensitive nerves which worked with the nerves in the glans to provided necessary sexual stimulation"). Indeed have plenty of foreskin sliding that I believe 99% is the cause make me come faster
For me. almost one year on, masturbation takes much longer, and sometimes I just can't/don't come and give up. It's still fun but I don't always get the release.What works for me is switching between working the base of my shaft and stimulating the head. I don't have a frenulum so that option's not open to me but working the base really builds up precum which can be squeezed out over the head and used as natural lube. If you don't make much then you'll need to use something like coconut oil or a commercial lube.
The good thing about taking a long time to come is that it's easier to experiment with stuff like edging, which is completely new to me post-circ and very pleasurable - and results in massive orgasms very similar to female orgasms in that they come in waves rather than the more immediate explosion of a male orgasm. Highly recommended.
If you watch porn the JOI stuff works well for this and there's a lot of edging/ruined stuff about at the moment too.
Thanks. I had my 8 week checkup with my consultant last Thursday and he’s said the healing process has been successful.
I am still experiencing masturbating techniques as I’m finding it had to climax but he said this is normal. I am finding it difficult to build up friction to climax but I’m happy it’s down to practice and technique..
For my case.i am now in the 10th day of circumcition and i am very stressed,as i have night erections but when i want to masturbate this doesnt work.so i am in a kind of panic if i will be able to have erections as previous as now i csn realize how important was the skin infront of my pines.Please i want to ask if you also have experiences like mine that you couldnt get erections in a musturbate try?And ofcourse if you could give me any advices?
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