Masturbation

[Karchie]

I am on Week 3 from my circumcision and I am dying to masturbate. The erections wake me up every night and the pain is less than it was a week ago. I'm wondering if it is safe to masturbate. I don't know how much longer I can wait. My next question is, how do I masturbate now that I no longer have any forskin? Any educational video I can watch?

[Zappa61]

Hi you will need Lube (KY Jelly) that's ok no mess & water based, Stay safe

[Karchie in reply to Zappa61]

Thanks! I'm interested in knowing how to stroke my penis since I no longer have the foreskin which made it easy to stroke it up and down.

[Zappa61 in reply to Karchie]

Same action up & down but with plenty of Lube

[Stinkpot56]

Before you masturbate, check with your doctor. The waiting time is usually 6 weeks. Be safe.

[Hidden]

If you do masturbate be very careful. The new skin at your scar line will be fragile and you do not want to break it. Contrary to popular opinion, men are capable of not masturbating. I am sure if you search the internet you will find masturbation videos. However, you might want to explore what works for you. Lube is almost essential.

[Karchie in reply to Hidden]

This is very helpful. Thank you. I think it was one of those moments where I get so horny and I get aroused and can't get my erection to go away. But, I will wait until my time comes. In the meantime, I will google masturbation videos.

[Hidden in reply to Karchie]

I imagine that watching any sex-related videos will get you even more aroused and therefore make it more difficult to contain your enthusiasm. Maybe try to divert your mind away from sex/masturbation for another couple of weeks? It can be done... When the time comes, use plenty of lube as has been suggested. Check out 'Liquid Silk', which is a very good personal lubricant. Good luck!!!

[Karchie in reply to Hidden]

You are right! It does not make any sense to watch any masturbation videos at this time. I will check out the "Liquid Silk."

Thanks

[Hidden in reply to Karchie]

You're welcome. You're already three weeks into your recovery period, so half way there - six weeks seems to be the approximate recommended recovery time. I think that when's the time's right, you'll soon find out what works for you as you start to experiment. Don't worry; it'll be great and you'll be one happy man. Best wishes.

[Hidden in reply to Karchie]

Another good one is durex tingle. Sometimes Poundland has it at two pounds but any supermarkets sell it

Good luck pal

[Hidden]

Take care.

[Hidden]

Hi If you can wait a bit longer it should be 6 weeks but coconut oil is very good for massage masterbation and sex when your ready but you must take care you only get 1 Willy take care

[Karchie in reply to Hidden]

Yes! You are correct. I just have to be patient. I'm glad this site exist. It is really helpful and I feel supported.

[YumTea]

Masturbation is recommended for the first 50 days. The scar on the shaft is very delicate and any stress you put on it will cause tears and may lead to permanent scarring. However some people manage to run only the glans (the head) to achieve orgasm. Some abstain and get very vivid wet dreams.

For penetrative sex the wait time is recommended at 70 days.

Once you heal completely you can resume masturbation and as you are now without foreskin you have to adapt to new ways. New ways include - water based lubricant gel, some do it in the shower with soap foam, many others use natural (unscented) coconut oil. Once your skin has adjusted and dried (takes several months) you can attempt to masturbate dry - using a light touch/hold (fist grab) And lightly rubbing the shaft and head. You have to experiment and see how it feels best for you.

Do not grant your shaft skin and pull it up and down. Doing this will make your shaft skin loose over time and ruin the shaft/cut tightness and sensitivity you experience on the glans when erect.

[Hidden]

Your right it is Not the same it's better

[NoCurve]

I’m sure you are completely healed by now, and have conquered any issues with masturbating your newly circumcised penis. I do, however, feel compelled to tell you that lube is NOT a necessity for masturbating a circumcised penis, like so many circumcised guys will tell you. I have been circumcised since birth, and have masturbated MANY different ways over the years. You name it, and I’ve tried it. If you DO use lube, or soap in the shower, you can masturbate over the head (like you did when you were uncircumcised), and it feels GREAT! If you do NOT use lube, just stroke your shaft up and down with your hand, UNDERNEATH, the head, and that feels GREAT too! It kind of hurts (at least for me), if I stroke over the head without any lube. I’m sure you’ve probably figured this out by now, but I wanted to dispel the myth that you must use lube if you are circumcised. Happy cumming!! 😁