I am worried. Since I am possible affected by Lupus my worst symptom is fatigue. Now I am getting into trouble with my wife which makes me very sad. Last weekend we were invited to a wedding which was about a three hours drive away and I just could not make it. My wife drove there with our daughter, her parents and sister. When she came back she was all upset and very aggressive. "It would have been so much nicer with you by my side at the wedding" and so on she said. "You could have rested in the hotel room" etc. was her answer to everything.
Now I just could not go to that wedding. I was so tired, fatigued indeed, that I was glad to just be at home and lie around. I really felt bad for not going to the wedding but honestly I was too down.
My wife now behaves like I have cheated her with another woman or killed someone or stuff like that - when all I am guilty of is that I did not make it to that wedding.
Can someone relate to such situations? I am very sad. I fear that Lupus might destroy my relationship and that makes me very very sad.