hi all
I’m 40yo male
I have lupus sle, aps and dilated aortic valve which see surgeons about next month
Does anyone have any issues with memory and remebering things, has become more often last month or so I keep struggling with peoples names who have worked with for years and sometimes remembering what I did day before or couple of days ago, I work as a engineer going to several different sites a day and could not for the life of me remember what sites I had been to it really frustrated me and like said today was talking to a work mate and went to say something about another work mate and couldn’t remember there name which has happened a few times,
I spoke to the nurses while ago about something else and they just dismissed me and wasn’t helpful
any help would be great
I have UCTD and yes all that you say about your memory resonates with me. Isn't it awful! I initially panicked thinking I had some form of early onset memory problems other than those associated with a CTD but finally accepted that it was part and parcel of the disease. Drilling down, the memory aspect has two faces for me. One is a direct result of fatigue and the other a result of the time I spend trying to work out what is wrong with me and how I can put it right (exhausting ). I now put in coping mechanisms. Lists! Prompts! Notes to self! Humour, the more I relax about it the less of a problem it becomes. Indeed, the cognitive consequences of these diseases is often less talked about. My biggest problem is often word finding and perhaps actually being able to focus on others for any length of time and maybe that in itself impacts on our memories- it's just harder to concentrate. I have booklets around parts of the house to make notes in - the key is to remember to collate and take the with you - a new routine to establish. Perhaps of little help to you, other than to let you know you are not alone.
Thanks for your comment yeah have been keeping notes on my phone, just find that nurses seem to dismiss concerns I have sometimes
Yes, I agree about medics not taking note of this. I have mentioned language processing problems but no one really takes it up. Google scholar does have some interesting articles on it. Just a thought - have you spoken to an occupational therapist at your local hospital. The specialist nurses could set you up with an appointment. They sometimes have golden nuggets to support just these issues.