My 19 year old daughter was diagnosed with having Lupus in April this year. She has had a rough time with ad she has had 2 lots of siezures dangerously high blood pressure anemia and kidney failure. So as a family we have been to hell and back since all this started. I have 5 children the eldest suffers with Arthritis, the second eldest suffers with polysitic ovaries then the 19 year old with Lupus. The younger 2 are ok, but the 19 year old a attitude towards them is vile and I can't cope with it anymore. Can anyone give me any ideas as how we can stamp it out?