A month back I asked a question about telling a new partner about Lupus. Anyway Mr Lupus intervened and I had flare soon after we met, the increasing Myco doses tired me out and my iron levels were rock bottom.... I had kept making excuses about being tired, needing an early night etc and sent the occasional txt but this week I went to bed on Tues and got up yesterday! As a result our contact filtered out. When I emerged from the worst of the flare I sent him a message on FB (very romantic!) explaining the truth of my disappearance fully expecting the elbow.
He was so understanding said to get over this flare and we could start again and now he knows he can work round it. Feeling quite happy at the moment..