Insecurities are Ruining my Life - Living with Anxiety

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Insecurities are Ruining my Life

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It’s been a while since I have posted, but I am struggling in my relationship due to my insecurities.

I know everybody has insecurities, but mine are ruining my relationship and I don’t know how to stop it.

Because of my insecurities I am pushing my fiancée away. There is no reason for me not to trust her so I don’t understand why I struggle so hard to feel secure.

I have been working on building up my confidence, but what else can I do to save my relationship?

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Hello :-)

If you haven't already sit down and tell her how you feel , if you have then tell her again you are still not feeling any better and coping with it

When we have anxiety we have low self worth and can find it hard to accept someone could love us but we need to work on that acceptance as we are worth loving

Enjoy what you have today and remember she choose to be with you and no one else :-)

Take Care x

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Thank you for your message, you are right. We are worth loving.

Sometimes it is difficult for me to feel worthy, but again you are right, she chooses to be with me and that should help with the insecurities I struggle with.

I just find it hard to cope sometimes, it makes me feel like I am too much to handle

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Try not to over think and work on acceptance :-)

I know it is not easy but you don't want to push her away and she knows what she wants and that is you :-) x

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