I've been struggling with anxiety for 4 years now and oh my word what a tough road its been. Trying to cope with the physical symptoms well that's just the pits..then there's trying to be the same fun loving person or party girl your partner fell in love with....? Hows that been working for me I guess you would like to know.??? Well it hasn't no,anxiety changes a person sometimes so much a relationship is just not strong enough to make it. Yeah sad but true. In my day to day struggles I have had bad days and than really really bad days but I have made it still and my relationship. ..still going will I say strong? Lets just say its going for now..its difficult for someone not struggling with anxiety to even get close to understand what we go through, how can they if someone isn't physically ill they must then just make it more then it actually is right? I read , talk, think and dream anxiety goodness I breath it thats how I feel many days. My husband and I was married 1 year before my anxiety and panic attacks started. I stopped smoking, drinking and just being the person he met once it started. I wanted to keep myself healthy as I thought to myself well it's my body telling me " you weren't good to me so I won't be good to you no more". My husband had to learn with me how to cope with anxiety oh wow wasn't a easy road still isn't but he tries. Living with anxiety is real and if you have a partner that doesn't want to learn with you or accept that you have real pains and aches and fears he isn't worth any further anxiety. This is just my opinion in my own circumstances and life
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