3 weeks in induced coma

It's my first time of writing on this site my partner has been in an induced coma for 3 weeks . doctors can't seem to get his antibiotics right . He's having a mri scan tomorrow then a ling sedation break in afternoon . i am praying that he comes around ok and be able to remove ventilation tube if not a tracky will be put in xx i feel so helpless but trying to stay positive x

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  • Hey Cath, sorry to hear what you and your partner are dealing with!

    Check out those articles and videos here and hopefully get some reassurance

    HOW LONG SHOULD A PATIENT BE ON A VENTILATOR BEFORE HAVING A TRACHEOSTOMY?

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    HOW LONG CAN YOU KEEP A CRITICALLY ILL PATIENT IN INTENSIVE CARE IN AN INDUCED COMA?

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    Wishing you and your partner all the very best

  • Thankyou going to take a look now x

  • Hey Cath,

    Thank you so much for reaching out to our community. There's various survivors and family members on here and we are all here to support you and your partner.

    What was the cause of your partner's induced coma if you don't mind me asking?

    Bill (Luckyone) was in a long coma and hospital stay and he was of great support to me. I was in a coma for 2 weeks and it takes a lot to wake people, it's trial and error on the sedation.

    I was fortunate enough to see a lady in a coma (does that make sense?) on my last visit to ITU. She was moving her arms and was intubated. I said "oh is she waking up?" And the nurse said "not yet". As they didn't allow my husband to take photos I had no idea what I looked like, I found it fascinating. Sneak a photo if you can and are you keepin a diary?

    My friend's mother had a massive bleed on her brain and she was moved from intubated to Trach and they much preferred it as she looked more like her. She's awake now and recovering. It's just another tool to help your partner, like the intubator.

    Luckyone can you offer any advice?

    All the very best and please keep us posted,

    Debs xxx

  • Debs, what you wrote is wonderful and so true.

    I have no memory of my time in ICU or HDU (September/October 2014) but I know I was very safe in the hands of all the medical staff. They are very skilled at their jobs and will be doing their up most to assist and nurse your partner.

    Kindest wishes and positive thoughts.

    Angie

  • Thank you yes nurses are wonderful also other families with members in itu its like we support each other and help each other to stay positive x

  • Thanks x

  • Thanks for your kind words partner is making tiny baby steps but its all positive xx

  • Thanks i just feel like i want him to just have tracky in because i know all sedations come off and i just want him to awake but also i know doctors know best and i have trust in them all x

  • Hi Cath,

    I can understand your concerns for your partner, my wife had the same concerns five &half years ago now, I was intubated for 19days before I was stable enough to have a tracheotomy, I have no memory of the first 53 days of the 3 months I was in ICU but my wife told me they must have tried every drug in the cupboard to try and find one that work, even speaking to other doctors around the world looking for answers as the strain of pneumonia couldn't be identified, I had no idea of what was happening during that time but thankfully my wife kept a diary of it, along with the families daily lives and thoughts, it was very difficult reading it several months later when I felt I needed to know what had happened during that time. For me and many others here in the community our memories are very different, locked in a bizarre world of nightmares and hallucinations that you can recall as if it was yesterday.

    Take heart that he's in the best place and will get the best treatment possible in ICU, it's also very important to look after your own health as it's very easy to neglect when you're in what my wife would describe as the ICU bubble, the ICUsteps website at icusteps.org has an intensive care guide booklet which you can download for free along with much more information.

    My thoughts are with you and your partner at this difficult time and wish him all the best on a good recovery.

    Bill

  • Thanks bill sounds similar to my partner with trying all different medications they told me they are really miffed . they swapped antibiotics for antihistamines couple of days ago and it seems to be making a difference x long sedation break yesterday and another one today x yea i totally get the itu bubble i am looking afer myself health and emotionally because am aware this is the beginning of a long road ahead x

  • It was steroids in the end for me as after the antibiotics had done their job and my own antibodies failed to shut down causing enlarged lymph nodes, so I had to have a bone marrow biopsy to detect for any signs of cancer before I could be given the steroids, thankfully all was clear starting me on my road to recover.

  • Thanks bill it just proves that when people share same experiences they have a good understanding of what you are going through xxx

  • Hello Cath

    My thoughts are with you, I was sedated for 42 days during which I had a trachy put in, not sure of exact time, but could not be moved for an MRI. Spent a total of 105 days in ICU plus 2 weeks in normal ward. From speaking to my wife and family I have an idea what you are going through. I got out on 23rd December in a wheelchair weighing about half my normal wieght. 6 months later I'm painting the house from top to bottom ! still need some physio and run out of steam a lot sooner than I did. But outlook good. Whats going on in your and your partners life at the minute will pass, no matter how nightmarish it appears now, keep strong, no one will give up on him.

    Gordon

  • Am so grateful for your kind words it's so nice to hear about recovery . this time will pass am just taking it a day at a time sometimes an hour at a time xx

  • Hi I hope your partners scan went well and showed some positive news for you both. The drs took ages to get my meds right so take heart it's not unusual for them to play about with various antibiotics. It takes time to come around from a coma, I took ages and caused lots of concern but as you can see I made it. Keep positive keep yourself well and take care I hope all works out hugs xxx

  • Thanks so much hearing of yours and others recovery gives me strength and hope xx

  • Thanks to everyone for your supportive replys all scans mri ct etc have all came bk ok . my partner had a very long sedation break yesterday and will have another one today . the nurses are brill but I'll be asking to have an update today from doctor . i am looking afer myself health and emotionally wise because i know myself and partner have a long road ahead of us x also thanks for the links for me to read am going to have a look at them now xx

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