I was hoping that someone may have personal experience and perspective on this. My question is , can you heal PTSD while living with a SA. I am working very hard at recovery but find that i am triggered by living with my partner who is an SA but is not making any concerted effort at treatment. An online course and a clean logbook (?). I find it very difficult to heal and am in and out of grief or numbness and hyper vigilance. Partner is trying but continues to lie, by omission and trying occupies a very different space to be committed to rehabilitation.. We live in different cities during the week and have given ourselves until the end of the year before taking final actions re divorce or staying together.