I am 45 years old and was just starting the second half of my life. Moved 2500 miles to be with the man of my dreams. B is so good to me...now this. So much has been going on and this hit us out of the blue. I went to the doctor then then hospital 4 times. I knew something was off track. After a catscan...boom! There it was a tumor in my bladder! The next day the surgeon operated took it out the tumor. Now onto more aggressive treatments. I know I have to be tough and fight. Sometimes its very hard to be brave. So I have a full body scan...lung scan...and a PET scan all my little d cks in row tomorrow to see what action needs to be taken.