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[brendaj1959]

not enough to deal with fibro and choking then me daughter tells me "dads seeing someone else" then when I ask this person is this true she tells me to get a life and stop moaning Gutted been with this lad 36yrs feel like the loniest person in the world

[Hidden]

Oh Brenda, I am so sorry to hear this.

Have you tried talking to your partner about this to see if perhaps you can work things through together? It's difficult for us to comment on because obviously we aren't aware of the whole picture so we have to be a little careful with our advice.

It isn't unusual with Fibromyalgia for communications between partners to break down with all the stresses involved in having the illness and also for our partners to see and live with too, this can place an incredible strain on the strongest of relationships.

Perhaps trying to talk to him about the situation might help you both see things more clearly.

Please be assured that you aren't alone here, we are all here for you and we all care about you. You are amongst friends here.

Please let us know how you get on, take care Brenda.

(((hug))) xxx

Libs

[nikita-stephens]

Brenda i know how your feeling i had somethink simular happen to me a ex partner was seeing my bestfriend behind my back and we was together no were as long but i would say to site down and talk to him and find out his side of the story and no one els can make the dision for you and im not going to lye it will be hard

i know this seems lyk the worst think you could see right now but try not to get to streesed out about it other wise it will make your fibro worse

i hope everythink works out for you and your family good luck

(gental hugs ) x

[Hidden]

Brenda, I really feel for you. My husband has done the same thing to me. And the hurt and anger were unbelievable. We tried to put our marriage back together, or at least I did. He said he did, but turns out it was just more lies! So for us it's the end of the road. Only you know whether or not you want to work things out with him. If you do, then you have to give it your best shot. If you want to talk more, message me. In the meantime, be kind to yourself. The stress will affect your health. You need to look after you.

I hope you get the best outcome for you.

Kaz

xx

[druss]

yes this happened to me as well, my ex wife was cheating on me with someone then called the police on xmas night and told them i was beating her up that was 4 yrs ago this xmas, very happy apart from the pain 24-7, good luck

[strother]

i really feel for you as if it is not bad enough that you have to live with fibro u get news like this,trying to talk with ur partner like everyone has said would be the best way to go forward,i hope you can get things sorted out as you need all the support you can get.i hope you can get things back on the rite track all my thoughts are with you.

soft huggles

samantha

take carexx

[Hidden]

My thoughts are with you too, how dreadful and at christmas too. Take each day as it comes. Wishing you better days ahead x

[tulips123]

after 36 years? What is he playing @ does he think he's 17 again? Have'nt you got enough to contend with already? If you have the energy punch a pillow. so sorry wish you all the very best - hope he comes to his senses. xx

[chicme]

i know how you feel only hes seeing a girl of 16 an hes over 50 its sick an not for the 1st time hes now my lodger hes no where to go an i need the money because dpap have dropt my money while appealing men are horrible sorry some xx

[gilford]

i think tulips123 hit it on the nail - midlife crisis? use your energy on yourself you need it and he does'nt deserve it.

I feel for u in your hour of need take care x

[hamble99b]

sorry to hear that Brenda,

sending you a gentle hug [x]

sandra.

[ArctoLindy]

Gentle hugs from me too xxx

[irisjoy]

hi Brenda so sorry to hear you're sad news and how dare anyone tell you to stop moaning and get a life ! this is our life and we have to live it , warm hugs x