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update on redundancy

Well hi everyone from a very frustrated fibro sufferer.

I was supposed to sort out my redundancy on friday but the day came and went without a sign or email from anyone.

What is worrying me is i am trying to stay calm, as i have recently come out of a bad flare up.

I can feel it slowly creeping up on me as my knees that always hurt anyway kept me awake last night, and my shoulders back elbows have joined in today,

So hope you dont mind if i put my frustrations on here so they do not attack me, as there is no one else except you kind suffering bunch that i can confide in. Hope tomorrow i hear something if not i will be on the phone and giving them an earfull, well they cant fire me can they lol.

I hope you are all having a lovely sunday and not feeling to bad love to you all xxxx

4 Replies

Hi Webby, try not to get too stressed about it or you will just make yourself feel even worse. Don't let them do that to you as it is so not worth it! Hopefully you will hear something tomorrow and lets hope that it will exceed your expectations. Good luck and let us know how you get on. Jane x


aah sorry to hear that they are prob dragging it out coz they know they can.try not to let it get too you too are being offered it.

i would ring them tomoz though if not and take a few deep breathes and stay calm and tell them all this making it just much worse for you.#good luck and thats what this site is for...x


I agree. Stay calm, take some deep breaths and do not let them get to you.

Don't let them bully you and end up getting fired. You will get nothing and a black mark on your cv. Hang in there and let them make you redundant.

Hugs and please stay calm xxxxxx


hi Webby,

you know the stupid, callous thing is that to HR there is no great sense of urgency ... they say Friday but mean "Friday at the earliest, well when we can get round to it, don't hold your breath".

Try not to stress about it - you could take bets on when you hear from them .... 4 to 1 Tuesday afternoon for me please.

((((( gentle hugs )))))

Julie xxx


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