I feel so guilty sometimes. I have my DLA , ESA support. Have just picked up my brand new car using my DLA. I wont list my pains or probs coz we are all in the same boat. But my lovely daughter in law, who has given me me 2 bueatiful children has so much on her shoulders it kills me inside. Her mother, father and sister all have cancer. She has had tests and will develope breast cancer at some point. Her sister is dying. Not weeks ..days..she is only 35 yrs old. I worry my grandaughter will inheret the gene..she is only 4yrs. I want to be happy about all the things I have but they mean nothing when it comes down to it. What right do I have to complain?