Well that was a load of ****...

[cxs957]

Tribunal was awful. They were horrible to me especially the disability and just basically critised me and said that if I manage to go to uni even though everything is changed around my condition for me and i always have a support worker and friend with me, that I am clearly fine. Even though you can claim DLA when working. And she critised the fact I should have coping mechanisms in place by now... I ended up getting hysterical...

Didn't even get a decision, so they probably just didn't want to see me cry when they turn me down.

[cxs957]

Just sat feeling so sorry for myself. I feel horrendous... Really wanna just curl up and give up. Why do I bother!? Urhg..

[gypsycrafter]

you have done what you can and now you need to rest and get over the dreadful ordeal. They do not know what the are putting us through. (((((hugs))))) xxx

[Twiglet]

You have all my sympathies, not looking forward to getting to that stage myself.

I know one thing I shant hold back the tears if they start getting nasty with me, let them see how fragile you are thats what I say.

Huge but gentle hugs. xxx

[Hidden]

AWWW so sorry they made you feel like that , its awful to be looked at and judged by few people who really know nothing about how you get on . on a daily basis they really cannot seriously look at you and decide in 15 mins wether you can or cant have dla it is a nonsense to even think it but come now dust yourself down and let this be the thing to make you more determined to show them and next time get it love to you diddle x

[MissKittycat]

I'm really sorry you were treated so badly xx give yourself a breathing space before you try to go forward with the next step xx

hugs x

[shiron]

I empathise with all of you, when you have so called atos doctors, and tribunal officials claiming to be unbiased WHICH IS A BIG LIE you have a fight on your hands, its hard enough being in pain, fatigued and a host of other symptoms to cope with, without having to convinced these government PROTOCOL officials you are too unwell to work. SHAME ON THEM.

[Lavender]

Darlin dont give up ,just think its them that worthlees not YOU ok,they seem to forget we dont choose to have all our conditions/effects that come with them.we

the officials forget to treat us people with feelings,so think of you,i know its difficult ims sorry to say ive been down the "ROAD" so chin up we are with you

xx

[cxs957]

Thanks for all the comments. barely slept laat night just petrified of hearing the post had nightmares..

[bbfreak]

Poor you, it's such a lottery which officials you get at these tribunals and medicals, they should all be singing from the same hymn sheet, so unfair! Have a rest today, and try to do something to take your mind off it. X

[gloglo]

sorry to hear about your ordeal, i felt like that when i was first turned down at the medical. darling have a rest and go to citizen advice and ask for help. they were very good with me.

hope you feel a bit better soon hun. x

[Goodienuff]

Oh God, so sorry to hear this - it's criminal what they have put you through. I have always said I would not wish fibromyalgia even on my worst enemy, but having read THIS, I would happily make an exception and let them have just 48 hours of what most of US DO have to live with.