Venting feelings...

[fibrogirl41]

Hi everybody, sorry to rant been feeling rubbish for a couple of days, arguments over getting jobs, money, getting out there, feeling like i am a lazy slob, i hope im not, cried alot but made me feel better after cryinĝ yesterday, fed up but just wanted to vent so you dont need to reply i just wanted to vent my feelings down x hope everyone is okay x hugs x

[JAN663]

I know exactly how your feeling I'm so full of pain I feel so alone not married got no kids just trying support myself some days I just cry and wish this pain would go away I wish you all the best and hope you feel a little better soon take care

[Fibroguy66]

No worries in venting whatsoever actually.It's good for soul as they say.

Some people are just narrow minded with there thoughts & lack understanding.

Just shut out nasty talk if you possibly can.

Kindest Regards

[JAN663 in reply to Fibroguy66]

Thank you

[fibrogirl41 in reply to Fibroguy66]

Thankyou, ill try x

[JAN663 in reply to Fibroguy66]

What hurts the most my so called friends don't understand how much pain I'm in they just assume I arnt bothered about doing things I used to some days I can hardly walk or get out of bed for pain and I've got no support just myself

[fibrogirl41 in reply to JAN663]

Bless u, i think you have me and everyone on this site, i hope u are okày, gentle hugs xx

[fibrogirl41 in reply to JAN663]

Bless u, i think you have me and everyone on this site, i hope u are okày, gentle hugs xx

[Fibroguy66 in reply to JAN663]

Then the friends you mention are not true friends.Only true friends listen and show sympathy

[Winnie123xxx in reply to JAN663]

Tell your friends to google fibromyalgia 200 symptoms and tell them to read it and ask themselves if they could cope with experiencing all that

[Winnie123xxx in reply to JAN663]

unfortunately you’re going to come across people who don’t believe etc but as long as they’ve researched it first then come to that same opinion then that’s when I will accept that this is just what they believe and I can’t change that. But to those who don’t ask questions or bother to read up on it.,. But have already made up their minds… those are the people that aren’t worth having around

[Welshcatlady]

Does you good to vent no need to apologise. I curse at my pain, makes me feel good although the pain is still there! Gentle hugs x

[JAN663 in reply to Welshcatlady]

Thank you

[fibrogirl41 in reply to Welshcatlady]

Thankyou, i hope u are doing okay x

[Uellow22]

Hi Fibrogirl,

That's it let it out.....it's a necessity sweetheart!

On this forum you can do it comfortably in the knowledge that people understand and will never judge you.

I am having a nasty flare.....nasty head Friday that turned into a migraine as was stressing because i couldn't stop and rest (lots of serious health issues with my parents and my son is doing lots of study). So yesterday I woke up with vertigo (always my major sign to STOP) with the most heaviest body weight. Tears, guilt, anger, sadness the works.....so I did stop but I do find it hard to totally stop, which makes me angry.....arghhhh.

So rant away....ha ha just like I did.....I hope you feel better today and the days that follow....you are doing your best honey & that is all you can do.

Big, soft hugs.

Yellow

[fibrogirl41]

Thankyou for your kind message, it made me smile and tear up x hope u are okat x

[Elaine200756]

Aww, you're ok. Sometimes it's all we can do. We are constantly challenged by this illness and if we have to deal with the judgements and criticism of people who do not have a clue about what our life is like, it can be the straw that breaks the camel's back! You carry on lass. We get it xx 🤗

[fibrogirl41 in reply to Elaine200756]

Thankyou, its people like u who really understand, i try my best x hope u are okay and thankyou fir your message xx

[Elaine200756 in reply to fibrogirl41]

You are more than welcome fibrogirl. I'm absolutely sure you are doing the best you can. Probably more than should be expected.I'm having pain in my jaw now but maybe just need to replace my mouth guard (I grind my teeth with stress of this fibromyalgia beast!)

I've had pressure put on me in the past too but just let it roll off you. And as Taylor Swift said, "shake it off"! I've even done this physically and brushed the imaginary negativity off my shoulders, arms and hands 🤣

We know, and you do too that this is not laziness. This is deep suffering and you are brave and strong xx 🙏💕

[fibrogirl41 in reply to Elaine200756]

Thankyou😁😭

[Elaine200756]

Welcome, take care xx 🤗

[Yassytina FMA UK Volunteer]

Sorry only just seen your post, your not a lazy slob by any means you’ve a condition that can affect you day too day, we do need too cry sometimes too let it out don’t we xx

[fibrogirl41 in reply to Yassytina]

Thankyou, i do cry alot sometimes, hope ur okay x

[Yassytina FMA UK Volunteer in reply to fibrogirl41]

Nothing wrong with letting it out , we all have too sometimes,it’s a way of releasing our feeling s, just a shame the support is not always there for you, if they could live in your body for a few months they might be more understanding, im up and down at moment (just looking out for the things that make me smile)my little grandson played ages in the garden , breaking up sticks and putting in circles too protect his seeds he planted , he s 7half years old bless ,I watched out of the window 😀 people always here for support , take care xx

[Aurorasparkle]

I can totally empathise. I am in hell at the moment with my chronic pain.

Sending you a gentle hug. X

[fibrogirl41 in reply to Aurorasparkle]

Thankyou, are u okay gentle hugs x

[princessk]

Totally relate , had a conversation with Samaritan lady . It was actually not about my fibro but caring for my elderly parent with dementia ,& she asked about work .I'm in transition was my reply .l usually don't respond , when people ask about work. It's draining we don't have to explain our lives , but guess that's all that matters to some peeps ,what you do.