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it so weird how one day you just wake up and you just know your life wont be the same it so weird like at times i feel so alone yes i have friends ones i can count on okay one or two who think they get it but they really dont and dont realise that everything they have you want but just wish i knew before what i would be like now i do things sooooo different

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M0AL61ModeratorVolunteer

I think if we are all honest, many of us feel or have felt the same as yourself. You can be surrounded by people but still feel lonely. Most people would also say that they would have lived their life differently if they had known what lay ahead of them, but even healthy people can feel like that too.

Chat to people here and although it's not the same as chatting to someone in person it does help with the loneliness as we're all suffering from the same thing. xx

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3 of my best friends know what im going thro on a daily basis as 2 of them is going thro the same and the other is usually with me but it like i wish i could go out get a boyfriend and do the normal things and i cant even do that xx

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(((Hugs))) xx

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thank you think im having a low day tbh

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M0AL61ModeratorVolunteer in reply to

We all get low days and they are horrible. Hopefully you will get a decent night's sleep and feel a little better tomorrow. xx

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iv took my sleeping tablet i have the lush sleeping loation on also some more lavander spray for sleep and both my dogs are here so hopefully i pass out soon thank you for talking to me xx

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Any time hun.

There is no better therapy than a big hug with your dog/s. I have a Black Labrador/Collie Cross and she is great for cheering me up.

I'm of to bed myself now. Goodnight, sleep well and sweet dreams xx

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Dizzytwo

We all feel low at times it is only natural. We wouldn't be normal if we didn't feel despair living with a chronic illness. Hang in there happier days are round the corner {{HUGS}} :)

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DanielleGemma

I think we all feel like that. I remember getting diagnosed at 19 and feeling like I hadn’t really lived yet and how different my life was going to be now because of it. I had to give up horse riding which was one of my biggest loves and passions and I guess I never really grieved enough over that...

Everyone has down days hun; but by coming on here and sharing with others hopefully you already start to feel better! Loads of love ♥️🌻

I think it was just yesterday my friend was complaining about her child and all i could think about is i wish i i could have children then she said she rather have my life then hers and im like eh your married with kids i dunno just a bad day for me xx

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lola1956 in reply to

Big hugs to you ..._xxxx

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joed

I feel your pain ,i ask myself daily why me what have i done to deserve this i have several disabilites and need two new knees i use a wheelchair and crutches il never be the same again i have alot of dark days when i question as to whether i can or how long i can do this for sorry for being so mordling im only young and feel like im on a life sentance.take care joanne x

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thank you and you take care too xx

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