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My stepdaughr 39 had her 12 week scaN to be told her baby died at 8 weeks

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hamble99b

oh Cathy, I'm am so sorry to hear you sad news.

no amount of words can soothe that kind of pain, but please know that I am thinking of you all.

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cathy21 in reply tohamble99b

Thank-you I had to tell her two boys 5 and 6. My hubby so sad. The worst for her is knowing she has been carrying a dead baby for last 4 weeks. She took a tablet this morning and its horrible. Knowing she has to wait to birth it. My own daughter is 13 weeks pregnant with her first at age 36. She has just had abnormal blood Tests backwith the odds of having a down syndrome baby but is going ahead she has waitedong e ough to get pregnant. It's all so sad.

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hamble99b in reply tocathy21

Telling the children must have been terribly hard for you. if only I could find the right words to say.

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lou1065

Thinking of you, very sad news xxx

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lilian68

thinking of you very sad news

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till3y20

Such sad news thinking of you sending my love to you all xx

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BlueMermaid3

I am so sorry cathy. What dreadful news for your whole family.

My thoughts and prayers are with you all.

Love Lu xx

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Fibrofoggiest

Oh dear Cathy, my deepest condolences come to you and your family, and I hope and pray that soon a successful pregnancy brings happiness to aleviate your sadness 💔 🙏🏻 🙏🏻

Foggy x

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Regnofibro1

So sad . I am at a loss for words. I will keep you in my thoughts.

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clare_hart

Cathy, that is terrible and saddening news. This has got to be one of the hardest things a mom can face.

My prayers go out to her. And to you. No need to say, take care of her. But remember, take care of yourself too. This is a time of grieving and lots of love & support.

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mattoid-mags

Hi Cathy, I'm so sorry and saddened by this terrible news. My thoughts and prayers are with you, your stepdaughter, your daughter and all your family. Xx

So sorry for your news x

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TheAuthor

I am so genuinely and sincerely sorry to read this, and I am thinking of you all.

All my hopes and dreams for all of you

Ken x

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twinks

So sorry' my thoughts are with your family at this sad time

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Mrs_allen

So sorry to hear this. Its so hard. My sister had a miscarriage at 7 weeks in aprilcwhile on holiday in Canada.

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Lucyhobbit

how heartbreaking *hugs*

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nettybetty

the same thing happened to my daughter whom I was with at the scan,i will never forget my daughters face, she went on to have a beautiful baby but she never forgets the baby she lost.even in 12 weeks she will have loved that baby,i know how heartbraking it is for all involved.xxxx

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Betty67

So sorry for you and your family. Hard for you all. Soft hug

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Alegra

Hi, I am so sorry to hear your sad news, sending you a big hug xx

So sorry for you all. sending hugs.

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carmelj

On my love what a terrible thing to go through. I hope you all find a way through this because there is one although the road ahead will be tough. Remember you are not alone, just reach out and we'll grab your hand and hold it as long as you need. Remember you are strong and be kind to yourself. Much love xx

Cathy I am so sorry for your sad news and know exactly how your stepdaughter feels. I had to go through a very similar situation and it is very difficult to get closure until the body resumes normal operations. There is still a big part if you that thinks that you are still pregnant and to get your head around the fact that your baby is no longer there. Give her your shoulder to cry on and be there again on the actual due date as I know I found that one difficult too. It has been just over 24 years for me but I still think of the baby I didn't have. I did have a beautiful baby after that, who i treasure dearly. I will be thinking of you all xx

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kiwibutterfly

So sorry to hear that, same happened to me years ago and it's not easy. Thinking of you all. x

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maggi999

So sorry to hear that Cathy, warm hugs for all your family xx

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pjs_53

oh my....I am so sorry to hear that. about three years ago I was told I was going to be a grandma again and my daughter in law miscarried. so I can relate. my prayers are with you and your daughter, this has to be very hard on her as well.

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Matrix

Cathy I'm so sorry for you all , poor girl it must have been so awful for her . Before I had my third child I had the same thing , people would say perhaps it was for the best and my heart was breaking . So I know how she feels . Sending a loving cyber hug x

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nadine111

cathy, am so very sorry. can't begin to imagine how much you must hurt inside. you have been such an amazing rock for your family through this experience. one of my best friends went through very similar experience. i sat with her the day they gave her the pill. will never forget it. the pain in her eyes...please try to remember to take care of yourself. will be thinking of you.

Thinking of you all at this sad time xxxx

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BaffledKaffy

Oh, cathy ... So sorry to hear this very sad news. One of our daughters also miscarried very early, and I know how your heart aches for your stepdaughter. Please be assured that many are lifting her in prayer, and that we hope she will be comforted in the concern felt for her and all your family at this time. My sweet girl has three wonderful kiddos now, so there is still much hope in her future, and that of your daughter, too. Sending healing and caring vibes your family's way ... bk

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LynetteR

So very sad, 💖....x

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