worrying alot about lack of sex drive

been worrying about my lack of sex drve as my wife stunning and alot younger than me worried as she has needs at her age and wprrying all time about it i know she loves me we talk aboutit tells me im silly she dosnt need that but with my physical pain worrying affecting my mental state now

[missymoomoo]

Hi, lack of labido is normal with mental and physical illness and medication makes it a lot worse. So, please, don't be too concerned...as long as you are talking and being close in other ways, you can still have a very happy relationship. It might not be forever!!!! If you are worried that she might leave you for someone else, this could happen anyway, whether you are having sex or not, but remember, she is still with you, so she must really love you.

[Hidden in reply to missymoomoo]

Hi missmoomoo thank you im gonna try not worry she told meall she wants is me and cuddles as give a good cuddle x oryan

[haribo36]

Good morning organ,I really do feel for you as my sex drive has also diminished and it has really affected my relationship to the point now that we are almost ended.But he is 17 Years younger than me and thinks about it a lot whereas Iam 39 and because I've been ill for a while now I don't want it.Sounds like your wife is very caring and as long as the communication is open then Iam sure she will be understanding.Maybe you could look at other ways of being intimate with each other such as lots of kisses and gentle cuddles,gentle massage etc..Unless she has a high sex drive you will find that women generally value intimacy more than sex,being told that they are valued and appreciated,respected and loved will go a long way.Hope this helps a little bit xxx

[haribo36 in reply to haribo36]

So sorry for calling you organ instead of oryan! Damn iPad

[Hidden in reply to haribo36]

lol dont worry organ nice name may go depoll for it lol and thank you for msg im 34 shes 22 and she has very high sex drive but she said all she wantsis me and cuddles im gonna try not worry about it but with her being so sexy and young i worry as i know what men and boys are like x hope your doing well haribo36 xx andy

[haribo36 in reply to Hidden]

If she loves you then she won't be looking at other men.As long as she feels loved by you then Iam sure it will be fine.I used to have a high sex drive when I first got with my boyfriend but as I've got more and more ill it has diminished.There are other ways around it with your wife you just need to be open with each other and find ways of being intimate with each other in a gentle way.Ive not been good oryan for two months now and depression has gotten hold of me.Thank you for asking xxx

[2592sc]

I too say don't worry. Us women are more sympathetic to things like sex. As already posted, just make sure you give her attention in other ways. Make her feel included in your life. I guess I made a good move for a change, when I married a man 17 years older than me lol.

[skittles-g]

I received a blue pill form of oxycotin 5 mg instead of the white form 5 mg. Whats the difference between the two?

[JK96 in reply to skittles-g]

i know this is five years too late but do not take oxy, its a derivative of heroin. bloody pharma's pumping out the herion