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8 years of IVF, 8 transfers, 3 miscarriages and one live birth in the midst of all of that for which we are very blessed. Just as we decide that we just don't think we can go on anymore as the only embryo left is very poor quality.............I get a positive pregnancy test from a natural conception. Out of the blue.

You can't make it up!!

I am not expecting this pregnancy to be viable. I'm 45. hCG is increasing for now- I've already done 3 blood tests and probably another one in the next few days. Then a viability scan on Monday (just before we go on holiday 🤯.) I have had many disappointing scans (last pregnancy there was no heartbeat at the first scan) and I have lost 2 pregnancies at the second scan so I'm not expecting good things. My consultant seems to be treating me free of charge as I've been with him so long and he says "I can't abandon you now" 😆. So who knows?

One last shot 🤷‍♀️

x

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Applepie7 profile image
Applepie7

Hey just hang in there like you always have. Take each day as it comes. Hopefully all will work out and try not to worry or overtime.. it's great you have your consultant by your side so I'm sure he/she will do tge best they can to look after you. Fingers and Toes crossed for you.🩷🩵

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hifer in reply toApplepie7

Thank you x

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Conceivingblee

Got everything crossed for you xx

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hifer in reply toConceivingblee

Thank you x

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Millbanks

I love your consultant! I have absolutely everything crossed for you - sometimes those little miracles stick xx

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hifer in reply toMillbanks

I know I love him too!! Thank you lovely. You never know but my hopes are not high. We'll see x

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XOXO13

Everything crossed for you 💛 xx

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hifer in reply toXOXO13

Thank you. How are you feeling this week? x

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XOXO13 in reply tohifer

Not great tbh, quite irritable. I’ve read lots of positive stories but the midwife was so negative and that negativity is really overshadowing any tiny bit of hope I have xx

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Doodlebug23 in reply toXOXO13

Well this has really p***ed me off! How dare she!!! Ignore her and get those positive thoughts flowing 💪🏻 Miracles happen and this is yours ✨

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XOXO13 in reply toDoodlebug23

Thank you. I’m really trying to remain positive and hopeful 🥹✨💛

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hifer in reply toXOXO13

I'm so sorry. Unless she has a crystal ball I don't know why she would be like that. There is still hope and, as we know, there are so many unknowns and surprises on this journey. I will be thinking of you x

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XOXO13 in reply tohifer

Thank you. My mum said the same too. I really hope the midwife is wrong and I’m just much earlier on than my last cycle dates as I know I ovulated later than a typical 28 day cycle would have you down as. Praying and the same for you too 🙏🏼✨💛

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hifer in reply toXOXO13

Everything is based on 28 day cycles and a 2 week ovulation date as a standard default from the start of your period (I am neither). Everything crossed for you x

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Chel91

Amazing!! Keeping everything crossed for the scan 🙏🏻💗 xx

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hifer in reply toChel91

Thank you x

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Twiglet2

eeeeeeeeeeekkkkkkkkkkkkk

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Twiglet2 in reply toTwiglet2

early days I know but I am very excited for you! Xx

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hifer in reply toTwiglet2

Haha. Thank you. Super unlikely I think but how weird!! X

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Twiglet2 in reply tohifer

Stranger things have happened! One step a time of course but I bet it was a nice surprise! Xx

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CardiGrey

Absolutely everything crossed for you. Praying for this to be the happy ending that you deserve xx

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hifer in reply toCardiGrey

Thank you. X

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Crazycatlady007

sending you allllll the positive vibes!!! Fingers crossed!!! X

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Jonesy84

Everything crossed for this little lucky egg xx

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hifer in reply toJonesy84

Thank you. It would need to be very lucky indeed! x

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minny_223

Oh wow! 😍 I have everything crossed for you ✨ xxx

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hifer in reply tominny_223

Thank you x

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Fertilityjourney

Wishing you so much luck! I had my miracle boy two months before my 45th birthday so keep the faith! ✨ xx

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hifer in reply toFertilityjourney

As a natural conception? Wow amazing. Congrats that's great news. x

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Fertilityjourney in reply tohifer

I needed IvF and immune treatment as I have Endo and high NK Cells… but just trying to reassure you I had two healthy pregnancies and babies in my 40’s. My second pregnancy when older actually went better than the first. Keeping everything crossed for you. 🙏Xx

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hifer in reply toFertilityjourney

Well that's very interesting indeed. Yes I had my daughter at 42. Thanks so much for the message and inspiring to hear your experiences x

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IVF-er30

I really hope this is your time. You’ve certainly been through the mill- a positive outcome is only what you deserve. Stay cautiously optimistic! Wishing you all the best xxx

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hifer in reply toIVF-er30

Thank you x

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Beclp

All in Gods grace 💫 praying for a healthy baby for you 💗

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hifer in reply toBeclp

Thank you x

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Christianbaby

Wow, what an incredible journey you've been on! It sounds like you truly are the poster girl for "save the best for last." I’m really hoping this little surprise is the one! I’ll be keeping everything crossed for you. Sending all the positive vibes for your scan and the weeks ahead!xx

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hifer in reply toChristianbaby

Haha I'm not sure about being a poster girl 😂. This was a natural conception so am obviously concerned about egg quality but I guess you never know 🤷‍♀️ x

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Rcs11

the universe has thrown you a bone! One that is so rightfully deserved :) congratulations! Please keep us posted, I love the stories like this xxx

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hifer in reply toRcs11

Thank you. I will report in on Monday after the scan. x

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Miracle43

Keeping the faith ❤️🤞🏻 xx

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hifer in reply toMiracle43

Thank you x

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Endowarrior36

What a little miracle. Everything crossed for you and sending positive vibes xx

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hifer in reply toEndowarrior36

Thank you x

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Gentleblue

Crossing my fingers for you! Sending many hugs x

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hifer in reply toGentleblue

Thank you x

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XXKKXX

Congratulations. I hope this works out for you.Took us 18 years to be finally blessed with my son whos now 2 months. He was a poor grade aswell , we put in both a 5cb and a 3cc so didn't expect him to take

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hifer in reply toXXKKXX

Amazing news congrats to you. That's a very long journey indeed for you! Ours was a natural conception this time which makes it all the more surprising! x

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Heles21beles

Sending positive vibes your way. I really hope this works out for you xx

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Cep92

Everything crossed for you 🤞🏻

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Littleschnauzer

Such a lovely surprise to read this, I'm sure every single person in this group is behind you and sending positivity 💕

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Vassi

Oh wow I love this, congratulations! Hope everything goes well for you 🙏

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Harlo86

I wish you so much positivity and luck with this pregnancy. I hate the saying 'if it's meant to be, it will be' but I find myself being drawn to it on my journey. It kinda helps me some days. I really hope this is meant to be for you. Please let us know how you get on. Sending love ❤️

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hifer in reply toHarlo86

Ahh thank you. I'm not sure what I believe in anymore on this journey to be honest. We certainly count our blessings for the miracle child we have that's for sure. Never to be taken for granted. I will update after the scan on Monday. Thank you for your very kind words xx

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Harlo86

I totally understand!!! I had to wait 10 years to meet my soul mate. I was literally in another country lol we matched on an app during the only holiday I had back in the UK since my previous visit 8 years ago. I was considering emigrating back to the uk so wanted to do my toe in the dating water lol we spoke for 4 months on opposite ends of the globe. I was 37 had a great AMH, no stress and was considering egg freeze but once I knew I was moving back and had met this amazing man, I put that on hold as we both wanted children. Within 4 months of me moving back to the UK we were official. With 12 months we had bought our first home and actively trying for a baby. Yes it was very fast but you know when you know and we both new without a doubt!! 6 months into our relationship he was rushed into hospital and diagnosed with a very rare form of cancer, blood mutation with knock on complications of portal vein thrombosis and hypertension. We have no idea what our road ahead will look like it or what time we have together. I met most of his family around his hospital bed. 18 months together so far and we are in our first cycle of ivf and have our first scan tomorrow. It's his birthday next month. One thing that gets me through each day is acknowledging what I can and can't control. Sometimes just handing it over to luck or fate or God or whatever you believe in, helps. It is heart wrenching but Good things come when you least expect it too. So for now we just take each day as it comes. I really hope this works out for you, I really do. Take each day as it comes xx

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Promisekeeper

You can't make it up indeed! Sending prayers your way! What a miracle. x

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LouLou7924

omg! This is amazing news and gives me so much hope. Thank you so much for sharing and positive vibes for your new little bundle coming xx🥰

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hifer in reply toLouLou7924

Thank you. It's very early days yet so we'll see but you never know I guess x

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MyLittlePinkness

Who knows is right! Don’t give up hope yet, you never know…hope it stays good news ….keep us all posted….these are the stories that give hope 💕💕

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Cinderella5

Wow! I'm sure your head is gone along with your nerves. I'm excited and nervous for you....really hope it works out honey. Fingers crossed my end and will look out for updates.xxx

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