Today my lovely daughter had her 5th & final embryo transfer. It was different from the previous 4 in that she has changed clinics, opted for a frozen 5 day transfer and genetic testing. One last throw of the dice....her choice. She is doing this alone and has been so strong throughout. She has decided she cannot do it again - the drugs, the emotional turmoil, the disappointment, the cost.
So we wait the dreaded 11 days to test and pray with all our hearts that her luck changes and she is given the chance to be the great mum I know she will be.
Good luck to everyone either climbing on this roller-coaster or giving it 'one more go' (maybe for the umpteeth time.
And to those who have to start to learn to live with the disappointment I wish you peace as you navigate your way through.
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Best of luck to your daughter. She’s very lucky to have a mum like you as I know you’ve been on here getting advice about her treatment and processing your own emotions. It (infertility) does take a toll on the whole family so I hope this community has been of support to you as you support your daughter. It must have been very difficult for you to watch your own baby go through such heartache and disappointment. I hope your daughter gets to become a mum and you a grandma. Good luck x
Thinking of you and hoping for a positive outcome for you all. I don’t think you can fully know the trauma of infertility & IVF until you go through it or witness a loved one dealing with it. Let’s hope this is your daughter’s time xxxxxx
Best of luck to her, and hope you are able to support her and yourself through all the challenges. She is so lucky to have you 💕. I don't have a single family member supporting me x
Hi, wishing your daughter all the luck in the world. The IVF journey is awful but is made a tad easier when you have the love and support of people, your daughter is very lucky to have a mum like you. Thinking of you both during the 2WW and beyond. Xx
Best of luck to your daughter and you sounds like a lovely Mum. It’s so unfair the cards some of us are dealt in life. We are so strong in trying to achieve our dreams while others are simply so lucky and don’t even realise it. Fingers crossed this is the one xx
Wishing your daughter a positive outcome, as a solo mum I know how difficult the journey is, let alone doing it without a partner. She is lucky to have your support.
Wishing you the best of luck for your daughter. My mum sounds just like you and is super supportive in mine and my partners IVF journey. She feels everything I do and really goes through the emotions like it’s her going through it. Your daughter is blessed to have you by her side, she is resilient and a warrior to carry on persevering through the many obstacles, I know you must be proud. May this be her Well worth the wait- deserving time ❤️❤️
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