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Today my lovely daughter had her 5th & final embryo transfer. It was different from the previous 4 in that she has changed clinics, opted for a frozen 5 day transfer and genetic testing. One last throw of the dice....her choice. She is doing this alone and has been so strong throughout. She has decided she cannot do it again - the drugs, the emotional turmoil, the disappointment, the cost.

So we wait the dreaded 11 days to test and pray with all our hearts that her luck changes and she is given the chance to be the great mum I know she will be.

Good luck to everyone either climbing on this roller-coaster or giving it 'one more go' (maybe for the umpteeth time.

And to those who have to start to learn to live with the disappointment I wish you peace as you navigate your way through.

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JA-fnukPartnerNurseFertility Network UK

Just wanted to wish your daughter good luck with her treatment and it is great that she has you for support

Thinking of you both

Janet-Partner

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CardiGrey

Best of luck to your daughter. She’s very lucky to have a mum like you as I know you’ve been on here getting advice about her treatment and processing your own emotions. It (infertility) does take a toll on the whole family so I hope this community has been of support to you as you support your daughter. It must have been very difficult for you to watch your own baby go through such heartache and disappointment. I hope your daughter gets to become a mum and you a grandma. Good luck x

best of luck, I have my fingers tightly crossed 🤞

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minny_223

Thinking of you and your daughter. I have everything crossed for success 🩷

Big hugs to you both xx

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Pippy28

Thinking of you and hoping for a positive outcome for you all. I don’t think you can fully know the trauma of infertility & IVF until you go through it or witness a loved one dealing with it. Let’s hope this is your daughter’s time xxxxxx

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XOXO13

Everything crossed for your daughter 🙏🏼✨💛

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Hopewhite

all the best of luck for your daughter, I hope this is the positive outcome she deserves xx

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Luce_16

I hope your daughter has the success she deserves 🧡 sending love

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Christianbaby

IVF is such a tough journey, and her decision to give it one last try with the new clinic and genetic testing shows her incredible resilience.

Sending all my positive thoughts and prayers your way during this waiting period. Hoping for the best outcome for her.

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Doodlebug23

As a SMBC fellow solo IVF warrior (currently 15 weeks after transfer 7), I am sending your daughter all the 👶🏼 ✨ luck and positive vibes 💖

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Sja1981

Best of luck to her, and hope you are able to support her and yourself through all the challenges. She is so lucky to have you 💕. I don't have a single family member supporting me x

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Beingamum23 in reply to Sja1981

You have my support, albeit from afar. Keep going as long as YOU feel able to .

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Letis

Wishing your daughter good luck! To have your support is incredible... All the best for you both

My 5th transfer was my lucky one!! I too did it alone. Hopefully it will be lucky number 5 for your daughter 🙏🙏💕

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Beingamum23 in reply to MyLittlePinkness

I'm holding on to this 🙏

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Lemons1986

Just wanted to Wish your daughter the best of luck and thankful she has such a wonderful Mum to support.

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Crie1983

Hi, wishing your daughter all the luck in the world. The IVF journey is awful but is made a tad easier when you have the love and support of people, your daughter is very lucky to have a mum like you. Thinking of you both during the 2WW and beyond. Xx

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Crisp-monster

Best of luck to your daughter and you sounds like a lovely Mum. It’s so unfair the cards some of us are dealt in life. We are so strong in trying to achieve our dreams while others are simply so lucky and don’t even realise it. Fingers crossed this is the one xx

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Eggfreezer2015

Wishing your daughter a positive outcome, as a solo mum I know how difficult the journey is, let alone doing it without a partner. She is lucky to have your support.

Sending positive wishes ❤️

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